My ex and i broke up a month ago, she wanted to end things because
she wasnt ready ( after 6 months.. lost attraction). I went no contact
for 1 month untill yesterday where at our first uni night i smoothed
things over thinking we could be friends/fwb (sex was amazing, she
even suggested fwb after break up and i got angry!)


So on the night out we act all friends and arms around each other, we go
home early as one of our friends was smashed. Spent all night in lounge
on sofa talking till 6am we kissed and she would every time say she doesnt
want to lead me on its pure lust blah blah, i reassured her i understood and
that that was all i wanted too.. So she starts rubbing me and i start fingerng
her and when i make the move she states "we cant have sex were not in a
relationship and im not that kinda girl"!!!!

I accepted and layed off and said i needed to get some sleep, what do
you puas think i should do in this situation about gaming her. It seems
she got the last laugh in this whole situation as i wanted to bang her and
she denied it even after she broke up with me and wanted fwb!
how can i transition this to fwb or make her chase me back for it.I know she wants
to fck but doesnt want to look like a slut..

Of course she's 'that' kind of girl. Just some slight LMR while she justifies fucking you.

You should have tried again that same night. Quitter!

Think of the meal she's best at cooking, ask her to come over and teach you how to make it as friends.
Have drinks ready and waiting. DO NOT bring up relationship crap. Just Get sexual, be sexual, and pound her ass flat til she's grinning ear to ear.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Ignore what she's saying, focus on the behavior. keep doing what you're doing, hanging out with her, pushing the boundaries sexually, I guarantee you she'll have sex with you in the next week or so. Just don't react, she's trying to lead things but that's fine let her think as much, just don't pay much mind to it, don't quip, or pout or anything just do what you're doing act non chalant and unphased.

I had a discussion about sex with my ex a few days ago, (we got re acquainted after several months of NC). So she says NO sex for a bit until we feel comfort around each other again. 2 days later she bends over asking me to massage her ass in her thong. What do you think happened next?!

Come on man, stop focusing on what's said.