This girl that i had been trying to get (met her at my work) when i was still a majoorrr AFC and before i knew about the game is leaving for 3 months on a student exchange program.

We have been through a lottt (i was still afc and drama was easy to come by). Example:I liked her, i asked her out, she started crying telling me that she had just gotten out of a 2 year relationship and told me she would still go to the movies with me...never happend, i became too awkward and nervous aroudn her that she was just turned off

We still stayed friends and in touch and she is leaving on friday. We talked on msn and she asked if i was working friday cause she was coming in to say bye. I told her no and told her that tomorrow i will be in to check my schedule etc and that i would be in from aroudn this time to this time and that i have something cool to show her (cubbee tesstt lol), she asked what i said a test that kinda tells you about urself i guess?

She ended the conversation with ""alright i gotta go but i will probably cya before i leave""

If i end up seeing her tomorrow, what should i do?...she is still dating this guy (the one she got out of a 2 year realtionship with...yeah they got back together) and i think that i somewhat have a chance right now. Like she always shows me iois and such. What should i do?

Sounds like a little One-itis man. I know how the drama thing goes, and it's hard to change what they already know. One quote that I coined that I've learned to live by is "People change, but you can't change people." Sounds like she's just sticking with whats familiar. (You being the LJBF and him being the jackass she's always known) I was in the same situation once and of course she went back to the same old guy that had actually been abusing her for the better part of 6 years. It sucks man I know it, because you really start to care about their well-being instead of just picking them up.

Are you looking at just leaving her with good memories so she'll come back to you when she returns after 3 months? Or are you just wanting to Fclose just to get that monkey off your back? From what I can tell it seems like she's just got too much emotional baggage that she knows you're willing to put up with as a friend. I hate to say this but, cut your loses and move on. You'll be better off for it in the end. Step outside yourself and see what's best for YOU in this situation.

Hope this helps put your mind at ease.

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wow, thanks a lot bro. that's what it is and yeah i kno the solution it's just hard to do it cause not only is she ""hard to get"", nice person but also gorgeous. I think i kno what i gotta do..move on