| Hey, I've gotten myself into this kind of interesting situation.
So check it out. It is really important to me to be able to close or to escalate somehow with this girl I'm talking to. She was my biggest crush in elementary school (like pedestal status back then), and now that we're a lot older, it would be really cool to be able to do that. We've been talking on the phone and texting each other just about every single day. Recently, with school going on and what not, stress has become an issue and it is starting to seep in. She was talking about school the other day and even though she had done something great, the fact that I'm in med school and absolutely swamped makes the topic ultra uninteresting.
On top of that, I feel like I've also become a little bit weird as well. I can't tell if it's me, her, or both of us. But it has something to do with school, caffeine, studying too much, and just being damn stressed out.
Anywho, I am not sure exactly where to go next. I'm still having to navigate and all this shit. At some point, I just want to be able to go over to her house and hop in her bed. I'm pretty sure she wants me to escalate too, and I'm not sure if I'm starting to lose her interest. It could be that we are both in the same boat.
She lives kind of far away so it's tough to be able to come up with a good excuse, since I haven't been over there yet. At the same time, there's all this stress going down and we are both swamped with school stuff.
How do I fix this thing from possibly becoming a trainwreck? I want to steer everything back on a good course, and stop with this awkward energy that our chemistry is starting to gravitate towards.
Thanks for the help!! Any advice is appreciated.
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