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PostPosted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 11:01 am 
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Dear PUA players,

Early in the evening I made out with a cute blonde girl.
The problem is, on a certain moment we were both a bit bored about making out.
You would say: "take her home!". I suggest that, but she didn't want to.

So what do you guys do?
Go to another club/back to your friends/stay the whole evening with your new girl?

Dzifa


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 2:45 pm 
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Escalate to sex?


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 4:38 pm 
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For starters, don't just continually makeout when you are out or picking up a girl. That is what a dude who isn't used to hitting on girls would do and you shouldn't act like that guy.

A normal guy would be thinking "hey this chick is letting me make out with her, this is awesome, better keep it up while I can". It's fun, and the girl is going to enjoy it for a while, but there is no adding interest after you've had a quick make out session.

What you should do is have a quick makeout, ten fifteen seconds tops, then you be the one to pull back. Show her that to you it's just making out. Leave her wanting more. Leave her unsure of what you want. If she was enjoying this and you pull back, you are ending it on a high note, and you are leaving her when she's at a very romantically interested (IE horny) state. She feels like she's not done. If you pull back at this point, go back to a conversation you were having prior to the make out, you are building amazing interest with her.

Do this a few times during the night, and she is WAY more likely to want to come back to your place.


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 19, 2014 10:59 pm 
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For starters, don't just continually makeout when you are out or picking up a girl. That is what a dude who isn't used to hitting on girls would do and you shouldn't act like that guy.

A normal guy would be thinking "hey this chick is letting me make out with her, this is awesome, better keep it up while I can". It's fun, and the girl is going to enjoy it for a while, but there is no adding interest after you've had a quick make out session.

What you should do is have a quick makeout, ten fifteen seconds tops, then you be the one to pull back. Show her that to you it's just making out. Leave her wanting more. Leave her unsure of what you want. If she was enjoying this and you pull back, you are ending it on a high note, and you are leaving her when she's at a very romantically interested (IE horny) state. She feels like she's not done. If you pull back at this point, go back to a conversation you were having prior to the make out, you are building amazing interest with her.

Do this a few times during the night, and she is WAY more likely to want to come back to your place.
Thanks for the advice, it is helpfull.
Second question: Is it important that you want her to come back to your place? Everybody says take the girl to your place, but I don't see why her place is not good.


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