I was at a party and this HB9 I'd never met before started talking to me, after some flirting I went off and spoke to some other girls and ended up making out with some other HB in another room. Later in the night my friend told me HB9 said to him "I like your friend but too bad he's interested in that other girl..."

Later on I was speaking to HB9 again and she said she'd kiss me if she could have my hat, because she was leaving now. She gave me a kiss which was like a half make out. I then took my hat off her head and threw it into the bedroom to be playful and because I'd planned to go in there after her if she went to go and get in. But the door was less than half open and it didn't make it through the gap and fell on the floor near us (haha!) anyway she jokingly slapped me and went to pick it up, as she bent over I said "you slap me I slap you" and I spanked her, not hard though. She got mad like "f you!" and gave me a hard slap and left without the hat. I was laughing like an asshole the whole time.

Anyway I don't have her number and the mutual friend she was at the party with is a girl I barely know. I've found her on fb and I'm thinking of messaging her. Part of me feels like she wasn't really mad but just kinda got mad but is probably still attracted to my jerkiness. So I thought I'd give it a shot.

Going to try this "If you're going to slap me at least make it count, you slap like a sissy! " then I'm going to DHV with something about travel because we'd spoken about it and I know she'd like it.

Any suggestions? "Sissy" "or little sister" I kinda want to make her feel that her slap didn't affect
Me and to make light of it.

Worth a shot.

What's to lose? If it turns out she was seriously pissed off at you for smacking her ass (that would be weird considering she just kissed you) - convert it into a semi cocky apology.

To be honest if she's actually mad I doubt I'll get a reply off her. If she replies acting mad I think she's testing and a cocky apology is a great idea "well I'm sincerely sorry that you had the pleasure of me touching you"

I think going for this first cocky message and acting like it's all a big joke is a good way to control the frame. Any better suggestions for a solid first message?

Haha it worked she replied right away and now wants to meet up

Nice one dude. Get her laid now.

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