Last time I saw this girl, shes was really pretty and she was waiting for her bus. I didnt know how to talk to her and thats one of my issues because I have been opening with opinion openers but most people told me here that they are bad. That I just go and say "hey you seem cute, whats your name?"...

How would be the best way to approach someone like on those circumstances?

Check out Simple Pickup dude, pretty much all of their videos are street pickup. As for how to open a girl at the bus stop, just approach pretty much like you said "hey, this is random but I saw you and thought you were really cute, I'm blah blah"

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From my experience, since you even have to ask this question, the first step is desensitising yourself to the social pressure created by these situations. Instead of thinking how you can be comfortable striking up a conversation with that ONE girl, start from the ground-up becoming a social person who is comfortable meeting and bantering with all kinds of people you don't know, then when there's one girl you want to "make it work" with, you'll already be "in the zone" and you'll just start chatting without worrying about the "right thing" or not.

Don't know how else to explain it... getting good at game is often about shifting your reality, becoming familiar with situations and creating a sense of momentum and adventure, which took me a while to figure out. Early days were scary, paralysing in fact, but you see me day-gaming now and you'd think it's Neo from The Matrix who's can control his whole pick-up destiny (or at least believes he can). Think about the whole long-term process and how to become "that" kind of guy, and to cold-approach in any situation will become self-apparent.

By the way, who told you opinion openers were bad? I would be more situational and direct, but ANY leverage to "get your foot in the door" for experience is vital.

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I second this, push yourself to be more spontaneous.

things to focus on in game is always eye contact and tonality specially in daygame, also, just relax, relaxing i very important as far as street game goes, vibes are contagious

Approaching at Bus stations is my favorite way to approach women and meet them.

If you think about it, the setting is perfect. She is there, a lot of times
alone and doing...nothing.

She is bored most of the time, and you have the perfect opportunity to say something
and get to know her.

But the question is HOW?

Most guys are afraid of being rejected...they're afraid that the girl would freak out, or give
them that weird look and leave them feeling pathetic for even trying to talk to her.

So the first step is to deal with this fear of rejection and approaching.

Once you deal with the fear of rejection, and you see the girl sitting there, your
next step is to SAY SOMETHING to the girl.

Most guys make this waaay too complicated.

When they think about saying something to a girl, they don't really think about just saying
something to her...

But they think about saying something, then having a conversation with her...then getting her
number, then marrying her and having 6 babies with her...

In short, they go too FAR.

They build this immense pressure about making the conversation
a "success".

But this makes them:

> Attached to an outcome
> Unsure of themselves
> and Feel under an immense PRESSURE to perform

But the reality is that most women are not interested, pissed off at their boyfriends, sad because
they didn't get the latest shoes...that attaching yourself to this amazing outcome you need to
accomplish with women, is INSANE.

I suggest you take a more simplistic approach to talking to women.

Instead of over-complicating and thinking too ahead, only think about
the FIRST words...and then see the response.

So for example, you see a girl, and you say, "Hey"...and you wait for her response.

If she says "Hey" back, then you go from there. If she looks at you weird, you move on. You
forget about it.

You don't linger on it, analyze your every word and go "O if only I would say it while having my head
tilted a bit to the right, she would probably respond differently..."

...and beating yourself about it.

No.

Once you get a response, DEAL with it. Forget it and move on.

Also, if you're asking yourself WHAT should you say to a woman in the first place, let me give you
a very simple model for coming up with stuff to say to a woman, that
I use every day.

I've studied approaching women and different approaching lines to start a conversation with
a woman for a long time, and I discovered that there are basically
only 3 universal ways you can start a conversation with ANY woman.

Every line you can ever think of fits in these 3 categories.

They are:

1. Saying or gesturing HELLO
2. Asking a QUESTION
3. Making a COMMENT

Let's take a look at the first one, saying HELLO

If you see a girl, and she's standing next to you, you can just say "Hi" or "Hello" or "Hey"

Sometimes you don't even have to say anything, but you can just wave her and she'll wave
back at you.

The second is asking her a QUESTION.

There are short questions you can ask, and long questions.

A short question can be like, "What's up?" "Where does this bus going?" "Where are you headed?"
"You having a good time?" "Isn't it hot today...?"

and long questions like, "Hey I'd really like to get your opinion on something - who do you
think lies more, boys or girls" (Lol. That one is as old as pua)

And the third is making a COMMENT.

When making a comment, it's really important that you just OBSERVE what's going on.

So for example, if it's a really hot day, you can say "What a hot day". If you are sitting
in a park and it's a nice day, you can say, "What a nice day".

If you are observing a view, like a view on a beach you can say, "Amazing view".

You can comment on her and say something like, "Nice dress" or "nice lipstick"
or "nice shoes"

And again, remember to NOT THINK TOO AHEAD OF YOURSELF.

Keep it SIMPLE.

Also I do want to mention that if you feel Approach Anxiety, which is that fear of starting a
conversation with a girl you don't know, I have a new Approach Anxiety Cure technique which
eliminates your anxiety of approaching a woman in under 1 hour.

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So follow these guidelines of starting a conversation with any woman, and make the conversations
happen.

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I would just simply go up to her and start up a chat, "hey waitin for the bus?" And go from there she'll get the message. If shes interested, close. Is all about being a man who goes for what he wants with no apologies.

Only thing required for this type of approach:
1. Balls
2. Conversation skills
3. Improvisation
4. Condoms
5. Phone
6. Mints
Optional: rufees and tape/rope

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A good idea that has double benefit is to imagine that this is actually a guy that you need to talk so you may build with him some friendship, business etc
Then asking simple things like where you can have some good sushi around since you don't know the area can lead to a rather lengthy conversation and potentially a closer.