No offence, but that noble sounding advice is just stupid. And it's selfish. Why is this selfish? Because you are transferring your burden onto her. Now she has to carry the weight of your mistake, and have her own self doubt.

If you were in a onetime situation in which you made a mistake, a mistake you've never made before and you hope to never make again.

You are newly dating and you are still getting to know each other, fucking let it go.

If it's going to be your pattern, break up with her first, or let her know it's not an exclusive deal.

Other than that you'll just be making her feel like shit, so you can feel better.

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I'd say decide based on your own morality.

His dick was hard, and he wasn't hungry yet. - Evaluated.

Maria, if we'er sitting around and are dick isn't hard, make a fella a sandwich would ya.

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So you think that people that are emotionally ready and in a stable happy relationship never cheat?

Good luck with that.

lol. Noble shit? hahaha! I based my post on what the OP stated. He feels guilty. Also, if you read the OP's post you would see he loves the chick. It doesn't appear he's new to dating her. And I know from experience (not from cheating but life in general) that when one feels guilty and keeps it inside it only gets worse.

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You are not in a relationship either. So where did the " don't let the girl know" and the mentality of considering every girl a cheater led you? To a divorce? Where is the happiness in your relationships?
IF someone can consider them relationships... because you only get the physical part.

This is purely selfish behaviour. Just because poor YOU feels guilty, you feel the need to make your previously happy girlfriend REALLY unhappy. You are a sadist. A selfish sadist.

If his dick was hard and he had no self control then you are confirming that he is not ready to get in a relationship.

And about the sandwich.. go make me one. And hurry up!

Cheating was the selfish act.
It takes some serious balls though to admit the truth and take responsibility of your actions.

Yes cheating was selfish. But its even more selfish to drag your happy girlfriend down into the gutter with you.

Two wrongs dont make a right.

Hmmm that is a long time. I'm sure they know everything by now.

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LOL remember to give him the same advice when he'll do it again.
A cheater doesn't stop until he/she gets caught.

Hun haven't you had enough sandwiches today?

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You wrongly assume that i care whether my girls cheat on me. Since i currently have 2 girlfriends and 3 fuck buddies on rotation, i dont have time to think about the possibility that they might be cheating, because I am too busy trying to maintain an erection 7 days a week. Quite frankly i would be glad if a few guys could occupy them a few days a week, as it would stop my phone blowing up when i dont answer texts and calls.

You also wrongly assume that a man is incapable of being happy unless he is in a loving relationship with a woman. Dont flatter yourself love.

Keep telling yourself "All men NEED the love of a woman" if it makes you feel better. Because quite frankly my dear, we couldnt give a damn.

This must be your attempt at trying to be humorous and cool. I gave the OP my take on it. Keep trying to impress others (enjoyed that other post you left Maria). Later!

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