I go to a small college...so everyone pretty much knows everyone else. I don't really socialize much with anyone on campus besides one or two people, because quite frankly....everyone there is kinda fucking weird and/or losers. So I pretty much stick to myself and have my own fun on weekends and whatnot with people outside of school. I'm a commuter so it's pretty normal anyways.

However, somehow several girls consider me "creepy" or "sketchy" and I hardly ever even talked to them...never hit on them or anything. I showed to like 2 or 3 parties and they were there and it was all normal to me It didn't even occur to me they thought this. I always thought people were pretty intimidated by me because I guess I'm pretty mysterious, only one person on campus knows me well, and he's my friend.

There is this one guy whom pretty much hates me and he's like the AMOG of the ugly popular girls. (all the popular girls are no higher than a 6 or 7 IRL at my school). So he doesn't bother me at all,I have no envy or jealousy towards this kid...I don't even care about him. However, today I'm chilling with my friend and he says so, Jimmy, (kid who hates me) said you aren't invited to the party on saturday....I didn't even know or care about any sort of party going on during the weekend, I've never spent a single weekend on campus...besides...it's my birthday on staurday LOL. So I'm like "uhm okay? they talk about me what?". He says yes and that apparently the girls in that group think I'm creepy even though I've never spoke more than a few sentences to them besides "wassup" and banter of that nature.

Reason this guy might hate me is because a year ago I was at the gym with friend, and it goes like this.

Me: "Hey pete can I leave my protein in your room?"
Pete: "yea sure no problem"
Hater (He's the roomate of peter): "Yes but you are going to let me use it too then"
Me: "No. I didnt ask you"
Hater: "It's my room so I gte to use it"
Me: "No you don't shut the fuck up." continue to ignore him.

Ever since that, there is a very strong negative energy between us...mostly coming from him. I have no problem with him it doesn't bother me. Whenever he walks past me I'll look him in the eye and he will quickly glance down.

Is it because this scummy kid is talking shit about me for no reason besides that he's intimidated by me?
Do the girls actually think I'm creepy because I don't socialize with anyone really on campus, yet still carry myself with great confidence? (I do not feel relatable to anyone at all over there besides 1 or 2 friends, I pretty much hate the college and just go there to do my work. Quite honestly, I probably look pretty arrogant and alpha to most kids).

Honestly kind of confused.....
When I talk to the girls everything seems normal, I don't even game them...I just don't care about them. Why are they finding me creepy?

I am curious not because I want to make teh girls like me...but because maybe it is a behavior or something that people are sensing from me that I don't realize that may potentially be something I can control.

I don't care what they think of me...I care about how I make people feel.

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I bet you look at girls without smiling, don't talk to them when you should and maybe do when you shouldnt. Don't stare if you won't approach. Chicks hate that.

I didn't need to read the whole post to find out why.

You have an attitude of "Them against Me" and this is why they think you are a creep.

You don't like them, and you give off that vibe, so they don't like you.

Try pretending or actually getting to know some of the girls there and your whole perspective will change.

Do you know how many times I've Chameleoned myself into groups that I didn't belong to?

On any weekday you may see me hanging out with lawyer chicks or financial people then at night I'll be hanging out with party girls at a rave.

Whatever girl I'm into at the moment, I blend into that environment...

If multiple girls think you're creepy then there's a reason.

Whether that's because your 'hater' told them all you were nuts and had herpes is one possibility... or maybe - like someone else said - you have mackerel eyes when you look at people and don't smile or seem ingenuine (examples - I have no idea what you look like).

Can you please elaborate on being the "social chameleon"

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