Need a pep talk and some advice.
I tired it again with the x it did not work.
I am confused and not sure what I want. I never not known what I want.


How did you know the one is the one?

It's a feeling.

I was married for 5 years.

If you have to force it, it's not worth it. There are 3 billion women in the world and they are ALL replaceable. Until you cultivate this mentality, you will always be left heartbroken.

It is really that simple? (to both responses so far)

A feeling ?

And thinking there are over 3 billion girls in this world. I have tried thinking this the past week but it has not helped.


X left and is mad at me since I did not want to get married after being together 3yrs.
I was open on this from the beginning when I met her I do not want marriage for 4-5 yrs at that point.

Visualize banging two dozen tight pussies bouncing up and down your cock and after the banging, these gorgeous girls all cook you a nice, special hot meal and while eating, they're giving you a massage.

Don't think about the numbers. Imagine those tight pussies and firm boobs bouncing up and down.

Up.

And.

Down.

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Basically, don't get married. Marriage is a farce, designed to enslave men financially and emotionally. Read the blog below:

http://dontmarry.wordpress.com

This article is just propaganda against marriage.
I am not saying that there aren't some women that are bad but it is easy to spot the red flags from early on.

One of the major points of this article is that a woman wants to quit her job after she has children. That's not true for all women. If a woman is determined to have a career ( such as myself) she won't accept to stay at home and being handed a small amount of money and be lazy. I worked hard to get my Engineering degree. I didn't spend all these years in university just to put my degree on a frame and change diapers. I'd rather work and pay someone to look after the kids while I am at work rather than sit between 4 walls and do nothing.
Plus, only a stupid woman would want one source of income in her family, especially at our times that there is a global financial crisis. She must be really naive, immature and a spoiled brat while she was growing up.
You can spot such a woman since you organise the wedding. Would she stick to a limited budget or will she ask her dad to contribute so she gets the expensive wedding dress? Would she give drama about having an expensive event or a honeymoon? That's your clues.
The wedding is the first serious project that a couple take together. Be prepared to walk away if you see something that is not right.
Prenups... oh God. I'd love one. First of all I am not a golddigger to want someone else's money (that's why I don't try to find a rich husband) and second I would want to secure that the money I hardly earned won't go to waste if there is a divorce. I always bring it up with anyone that I get into a serious relationship.
I could go on and on about all the invalid points of this article but it would take a long post.

My advice is .. when you search for a wife look further than qualities such as beauty, good sexual chemistry etc ( which is what most men nowadays focus) and think like an old fashioned guy.
In the old times when men were getting married were looking for things such as:
- good at housekeeping
-not lazy
-appreciating you and whatever you bring home
-knowing how to budget her money and able to look after her things etc.

I have seen friends that were pretty having none of these qualities and being the first ones that got married. They had a game though on how to wrap the guy around their little finger.
Unfortunately a woman that could make a good wife is not anymore appreciated. If you look after your boyfriend you are considered soft and stupid and should be replaced by "a barbie" that is never satisfied with anything she gets. This is a f*ck up world...

But you are a girl who chose to study a traditionally masculine subject and also decided to join a pickup forum written by men, for men, so you're not exactly the typical kind of girl most of us guys generally come across. For every nice tomboy like you who may marry one day, there's a million entitled girls who thinks it's perfectly fine to look for a provider and just stay at home. You are in a minority in thinking that you need to work, especially in such a masculine field, but good for you. You will certainly have the best choice of men when 95% of your colleagues will be guys.

Yes, you're right, men should look beyond looks, but we will only do so if the woman has already passed the "looks test". We will ALWAYS ignore ugly women. I don't care if a woman has 10/10 personality, 10/10 intelligence, 10/10 compatibility; if she's fat and ugly, I don't want to know her, I don't want to fuck her, I don't want to be her boyfriend, I don't even want to be close friends with her. I challenge you to find a quality man who doesn't (at the very least secretly) think like this.

I would never re-marry unless the girl was Asian or eastern European. Western women have been destroyed by feminism.

I see what you mean and I agree with you. I think I am no more than an 8. I'm not fat but believe me, until now I have received no marriage proposals and I am 32 years old.
It upsets me when I see women that are that type that this article describes got married to guys that were nice and I am still single with no kids.

Femininity attracts most men. Feminism turns off most men away. Same is true with women.

Masculinity attracts most women. Effeminate men turn off most women.

If my cock doesn't get hard when interacting with a woman, I don't want to waste my time getting to know her personality better.

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You are absolutely right Hellbound. Unfortunately, nowadays, femininity is not appreciated.
I regret for all the times I expressed it other than in makeup and clothes.

Uhm.

Femininity isn't equal to Feminism.

Feminism is just a term for the masculinization of women and emasculation of men. It isn't attractive biologically because genetically and historically speaking, matriarchal civilizations didn't survive that long in the past.

Gender Equality is just an abstract concept. Gender Roles in the human race is real and worked well for thousands of years for a reason. Gender Roles made the human race survive to where it is now. On the other hand, Gender Equality as promoted in matriarchal civilizations in the past wiped out those matriarchal civilizations.

One lost civilization which promoted Gender Equality is the Etruscan Civilization.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A6cwPRovVXI

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HH, I don't think she was saying feminism and femininity are the same thing, she was saying she tries to look feminine with makeup and treating a guy well / looking after his needs but still can't find a husband.

My bad.

Lol.

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That was a very interesting documentary. Thank you for sharing.
I agree with you that feminism and femininity are two different things.
However, it is very confusing for a woman to know how to behave in the dating world.
Matriarchy might not have survived for long but patriarchy is not good either.
Usually on a society where there is a very defined line on the Gender roles.. there is also high percentage of domestic violence.
I think a compromise between the two systems is the best.