hi everyone. my name is the Fired Ragon. obviously that's not my real name but i don't want to give my real name on here because i don't want any girls to track me to this site lol. i live in the usa, i don't want to say where exactly, but it is somewhere in the new york area. i am 20 years old and i am very new to the game. i've always been really socially awkward and i was diagnosed with aspergers syndrome (autism) when i was a kid and that doesn't help anything, and honestly i've never even had a girlfriend (i am very embarrassed to say that). i really hope this forum and you guys can help me out. that's all i have to say.

EDIT: i forgot to mention i read the rules and everything but i don't know what NLP patterns are. can someone explain? i don't want to hurt anyone or anything, i just want to get better and more comfortable around girls.

I would not start with NLP.

Start with approaching. Get over the anxiety and worry and absolute terror you feel in your stomach when you walk up and talk to a girl you've never met.

How?

Just do it. A hundred times.

There's no physical pain. It's all mental...

It's sort of like "learning to read" for PUA. As soon as you can 'read', you can do anything.