| Of course there was. This is usually the best place, a store, market, a restaurant, a fastfood....all these places are for a basic adult. I mean if you aren't doing college, you don't have many friends...then where are you going to meet or talk to women? It's rational and not weird.
Just ask her how she is doing, like most store employees would do...comment on her hair, tell her wow it's real busy in here or just make a conversation about her....doesn't have to be lengthy...I mean hell in this situation you could ask her number or since it's so packed have your number on hand be like I really would like to chat up with you when there's more time...text me sometime and give her a smile, be relaxed and in control...you could say call, but sometimes texting is a real good opener.
Most wont give their number out in fear of rejection or them just ditching their number like it was nothing, but it's better than just not doing anything like you did. Depending on the items it will take some time for that woman to scan all of them, but in the meantime you can start a conversation randomly about just observations throughout the day, weather, her hair, how long she's been working there, what she thinks of her job, or a certain item you really liked and you can always promote an item you got if you have gotten it before just say oh these items are really great, I get them all the time or another thing you can say is ah I saw this and it looked good, hopefully it's as good as it looks.....actually more women are open when they are working because it's unexpected and it comes off easier to talk to them for you since you will most inevitably already strike some kind of talking....so that decreased yours or anyone's anxiety concerning approaching, a good method if I say so myself.
It's not weird to start a conversation, it's not weird to be playful and flirty with a woman you find attractive out of the blue. You don't have to have stress and pressure yourself into NEEDING THAT NUMBER or some end-game goal scheme, just converse and use techniques while having FUN...if you don't get it, you don't get it, more women out there. Just play the game and start a conversation like you were saying....and while doing that genuinely seem interested about her, what she has to say, her feelings on things...you don't have to be a kiss up, just be interested and let her know you are interested in HER...pay attention.
Anyways you can PM me for any further advice or advice in general about ANY AND ALL SITUATIONS...I am here to help. I hope this gave you a little insight, it's a majority of all different techniques and concepts, but just have CONFIDENCE and don't be afraid to be chatty and talking. Hope to hear from you soon and hope you make progress with all women.
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