Hey guys,
I've been texting this girl that I hooked up last Friday (9/5). I've asked her to hang out since then but said she was busy.
She just texted me and said that she's going to a girl's birthday party. Is it ever okay to invite yourself?

I don't want sound rude or needy.

She may be telling me this because actually wants to see me. Or she could be telling me this see my reaction and what I'd say, so she can "gauge the situation" between us.

I think the latter is more likely because she could have just invited me straight up.

Any help or advice here on what to say and how to progress from here would be much appreciated.

Don't invite yourself. You can't be serious.

"Have fun" is the correct response.

Okay, sounds good.

Thanks for the fast response.

Dude, you are way, way, waaay over-analyzing the situation too much.

First off, the reason she said that she's busy and that she doesn't have time to meet, is
because you have showed yourself as a needy guy, who will do anything to get her
precious time.

And the thing is, women don't want guys who are needy. Neediness repels women from
wanting to be with you.

Women want to be with a guy who is desired by other women, and who has something
else to do besides waiting on the phone for her response.

That's not attractive.

You need to show to her that you are detached from her. That you are indifferent.

Indifference is extremely attractive to women. There is just something about a guy
who has this air of "I don't care" about him.

The question is, how do you come to a point where you don't care and can show detachment
and indifference?

There is one big thing that I teach to guys and that is, that if you want to get the
girl, you gotta let her go FIRST.

What this means is that you let her go emotionally and mentally first, you become OK if she
leaves and isn't a part of your life anymore.

Only then can you create attraction with a girl and make her want to be with you.

So the best thing you can do at this point is to let her go emotionally and mentally. Become
OK if she leaves. Say, "I am OK if she leaves and isn't a part of my life anymore"

Stop writing to her. Start meeting new people and wait for her to write to you. If she does,
talk about how you're meeting new people.

If you continue with what you're doing right now, you'll mess it up...she'll leave anyways and
you'll be left with only your dick in your hand.

Choice is yours.

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Thank you for that response.

You really put this situation into the proper perspective. It's the ONLY view I should have of this situation and all others to come.

I just filled out the form for your program.

Again, thanks a lot man.