Just for the record; Excuse me for my English it's my third language. Although i don't have any problems in understanding it can be a pain in the ass to write coherent sentences. I'll just take it easy and short;

I'm a 21 y.o. male, currently studying business economics.. I'm also in a pretty good shape (i'm a bit hairy though, that's something i got to deal with). If i can believe the words of so many women i'm a handsome guy rated 8/10+ most of the time. I've had a relationship and had a few girls here and there to hangout with and do some sexy time. The problem is i never tried back then, as of right now i'm doing my hardest to get with girls and it's frustrating cause i seem to desperate and they eventually flake on me. I need too get my expectations down i guess.

A few questions i'm stuck with;

- If a girl stares at you for more then 2-3 seconds do you instantly go up to her and make a talk? How do you eventually ask her number?
- How long should you wait before asking her out after getting her number?
- Should the texts be long and interesting or short and give it time inbetween the messages?
- What is a good way to ask her on a date or just "hangout"..

I'm asking all these things because i think my core problem lies in setting up the date and attract the girl through messages. I can't blatantly say i want to fuck them haha so i need some variation. I used too to better at it but i destroyed my social life after i broke up with my ex i think it also broke my confidence..

Anyhow this is my story, would be nice to the question answered and maybe even get general tips!