So there's this girl who I really like and I'm almost 100% sure she likes me back. It's not oneitis, I have quite a few girls on the side and I'm not dedicated solely to this one girl. But even still when I talk to her I find myself turn into a nerdy little kid who doesn't know what to say to his "crush". Now this isn't the main problem because she says she likes that I'm quiet and don't talk much, because she talks a lot. The main problem is that when I do spend time with her, every time my goal is to kiss her but I just can't escalate the situation to bring it to that point. I think my feelings for her are making me reluctant to escalate. By the end of our last "date" the most I'd kino'd her was when she put our hands together to compare the size of her hand to mine.

She's coming to my place tomorrow to watch a movie and I've seen her 3 times already and not kissed her despite getting the strong feeling that she wanted me to due to my lack of escalation. So any advice for tomorrow would be much appreciated. And if you have any questions about the situation I will happily answer them. Thank you

Count to 3 and do it...

If you've been out with this girl a handful of times already and you can't pull the trigger, she's going to find someone who will... (seriously you have like 1 shot left... I'm surprised she's still keeping it up).

She's obviously into you.

Did she initiate this? Like did she put your hands together and comment on the size of your hands? Cause if she did that then you didn't kino escalate, she did.

Dude, get over it and make a move. You ARE going to lose this if you don't do it eventually.

Man, when she comes over kino escalate and then kiss.

You can also play the game where you ask each other questions. If you ask her a question, she can't ask the same question back and vice versa. It should also be allowed to pass a question so she doesn't feel pressured. You can tease her about her answers and use it as excuses to touch her, push her, etc... Start with innocent (but interesting) questions and escalate to more sexual stuff. Somewhere in the middle you could for example as if she's ticklish and then tickle her to see if the answer was true. Eventually you can ask her how good of a kisser she is and then whatever she says you can tell her "let's find out" and then go for it.

Otherwise if you feel the sexual tension is high enough, you can literally ask her if she wants to kiss you. If she says no, you tell her "I didn't say you could" in a teasing way. If she says maybe you say "let's find out" and kiss her. And if she says yes you don't need to say shit, you just go for it (or maybe go in I-forgot-how-much-percent and let her kiss you).

And since you're already together at home and kissing it should be real easy to take it further until you got your dick in her. Remember to use a condom

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What would James Bond do?

Thanks everyone for the advice honestly I think I'm just going to not think about it and just do it. I'll let you guys know hiw it goes tomorrow.

Advice?

Just go for it man. When you're watching the movie and you sense she's looking for a kiss just say something stupid like "So, tell me something about yourself." She'll say something silly like "What do you want to know?" then just give her a smirk and beckon her to get closer then just give her a kiss man.

When a girl is investing time in you she's investing enough interest to kiss you. Realise this truth and forget about all your doubts and insecurities about how you're making things awkward. She's there for a reason: She fucking likes you and wants something to happen!! Just be clear in that you want a kiss from her. "Come here" *start beckoning with your fingers* She'll come closer and all you have to do is kiss her.

treat her like any other girl

hug, hand holding, kiss