been dating her for about 6 weeks, sleeping together for 4 weeks now. we communicate daily, mostly text. shes a talker but hasnt initiated phone calls at night which is great.

my question is, is it OK that we communicate every day? I always space out my replies (because Im busy at work etc) but I basically always end up replying to her. shoudl I not respond to her sometimes?

I just dont want it to become status quo very fast and the excitement or chase to be killed fast. Shes always been very very compliant so far and super sweet and nice, sending kisses calling me babe etc.

I just wonder about the "be a challenge" thing, like if I constantly give her what she wants, then it will get stale pretty fast no? I will fall into "mr nice guy" and become predictable. so how do i solve this??

I have always pondered this. I have never been able to be a dick and just not reply or ignore her or cheat or shit like that because I am genuinely a good person but it used to backfire bigtime because I was Mr nice guy all the time. Ive been able to peel back almost all layers of mr nice guy and just be a cool regular dude, but I just wonder if I pose enough of a challenge/chase for the hotties.

Dude your in a relationship with this girl. So whatever you are doing...its working, why start playing childish games now? Don't let her walk all over you or get away with shit but other than that you should stay the course. If your genuinely a nice guy why the fuck would you change for a woman? Be who you are and when and if problems arise then you have to decide how to proceed and this forum can be extremely helpful. Until then hold the line and keep fucking and messaging her whenever you feel like it without over doing it(the messaging not the fucking).

I agree with Odyn.

I'd skip the games.
You're in a relationship so you really should be communicating daily.

And what is wrong with talking on the phone?! I find this much better than texting in relationships.

Good luck

Was going to comment, echo'ing the other posters' thoughts... but they've summed it up perfectly.

No games, don't be a moron.

You've got the girl. You're no longer gaming her.

I agree...be who you are and if she appreciates that, that's awesome. Which it seems she does right now.

You shouldn't overthink it or worry about it when it's good. Enjoy it and if it goes bad, then look for advice.