So I really like my classmate..she's a readheaded yeah gorgeous, I got her number in the library after that i met her in an anthropology club on friday... we chat after that I text her if she wanted to go out saturday.. she said she was super tired... then today i text her the lamest message... So for the club I was thinking we could have a treasure hunt field trip. What u think?... WTF was i thinking... is been 6 hours with no repy...


Any suggestion guys?

Lol dude, I had the same problem of coming off to strong when I was dating my Girlfriend. Fortunately she liked that.

So I understand that you are after one girl, but you need to game more than one. Just like anything else, talking to girls improves the more you do it. I've done some really stupid shit in the past. I've waited to text too long (text her as soon as she gives you her number, she'll text you back later), I've used some more than crappy openers, I've failed in some aspects by not using A3/qualifiers, so get some practice.

Some advice about texting:

Don't abbreviate or use improper grammar until you find out how she texts:

You're a cute girl, you get this text from a guy who you met in an academic club saying would a scavenger hunt be fun? "What do u think?", kinda wierd, right?

In the future just Say "I think we should do a scavenger hunt". Don't even ask her opinion, she'll respond.

Another thing, you're looking to F-Close hopefully, not just make a friend and be Friend zoned, so be a bit open about your intentions. You're building a platonic relationship right now. You want to flirt with her a bit. The worst that can happen is that she says no. At least you won't be wasting your time.

It's been a day since she texted you back. Just call her up and ask her out (I prefer call over text but it depends on the girl, just remember that with girls there are many people texting them. if you call them, it may be a bit awk, but you will have their undivided attention).

I hope this helps somewhat. Also, flirt with other girls. Get some practice, and if she sees you talking to someone else it will only make you more desirable. Also, this girl doesn't have a BF, right? Because if she does you need to take a different approach then I am telling you. You kinda act like the flirtatious friend and then just go "Oh, your boyfriend must worship you" bla bla bla and then she'll feel that her boyfriend is inadequate and then you just step in.

Also, try to be more out there, you seem a bit shy. I'm in a college environment so you may want to see how I handle the girl (A I think I call her) in my physics class.

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Rugby7 i appreciate the advice.. We went on a date Friday night.... i'm 19 n she's 24 i wish i could drink but i can't things went alright.. though i only kissed her on the cheek, I texted her yesterday with the lamest text i sent her a picture of my dog because that's what we talked about and some description about the dog.. and then i sent her a text "Just be careful tonight at the show, don't drink too much lol".. though it's sunday and she hasn't text back...? i only see her tues & thursday... I was thinking to ask her on a date this tuesday.. What u think man???

Hey man, sounds like you had her with the number close and date but weren't assertive enough to at least secure a real make out. The age difference is huge so its not very easy to keep her entertained when you are obviously into her like a young school kid. I know she's gorgeous and you had her interested which always feels good but maybe taking a step back and acting like you don't care would be a good plan. Maybe try flirting with other good looking girls in class? If she initiates another date then by all means go for it.

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Yeah, Miami's Right. Don't overdo the flirting though.

Now lets remember our basics:
1. Be confident
2. Be Genuine
3. Don't seem desperate (yes you can be confident and desperate)
4. Know when to leave (the hardest one)

It seems that you never seem confident. Making friends is easy, but flirting is a bit more difficult.

So it seems like your at risk of being F-zoned. What can we do? You probably should have kissed her goodnight. How do you do this? It's important during the date to be touching and holding hands and stuff like that. Otherwise towards the end it will be awkward.

Don't send lame texts, and don't send followups. She's in your class so you can easily reestablish a dialogue with her.

And for the second time, FLIRT WITH OTHER GIRLS! Try not to flirt to much in your history class. Just a bit to keep her on her toes. Some people may disagree with me. Don't be caught up on this one girl. It's stupid. You can game more than one girl.

The Mystery method of dating:

So, I'm not sure whether you checked my Journal at all, but I'm going to invite A over to my room for tea (because we talked about it earlier) and try some kino escalation and see where that goes. I hope I don't fuck up. It's easy to practice verbal game but kino takes longer.

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thanks fellows for your support.. I'll let you guys knows if I fuck her or not which that's all that matters