I am currently deck cadet in merchant maritime academy.In 1 year I will be deck officer
This job has its plus and minus.I get a lot of money but I will travel 6 months away from home but also I will stay 6 months on the land without responsibilities.While I will be traveling I am not staying too much time on the port(many times I am not able to go outside from the vessel I might stay 1.5 month on board without steping in the land) so I will be able to go for 1 night stands or prostitutes (prostitutes cause I might be so much tired from work so If I have 1 day to go outside I might not be in the mood to seduct any girls)
In conclusion when I am in the land I can do wtf I want I am completely free
but when I am onboard things become hard.
When I discovered pick up it was exactly what I needed cause of my job.(I was doing some stuff pick up artist did but they were completely natural( I had not too much success cause I had not experience with girls) I was forced due to lack of girls in my academy to do that stuff when I discovered pick up I was like wtf there are guys like me hehe)
But I have this weakness inside of me when I am onboard the vessel I am forced to
fucking masturbate or be away from women.
How I can make my self more stronger mentally in order not to have bad mood onboard due to that facts????? Cause to be honest I am away from women onboard
but when I am on the land I am COMPLETELY free.
SO how I can make my self more stronger mentally cause sometimes I have bad mood
from being away from women or the society and being there!!!!
I can survive 3 months onboard cause this jobs has too much suspense but after that my inner game starts to crumble.(negative thoughts sometimes embrace me or I smoke too much or drinking alcohol too much) however I also think the money part and the money are damm good there other jobs have shitty salaries
I am not the only 1 with that problem many of my colleges partners have the same problem.
Also what's funny is I met some natural players(life forced them to become natural pick up artist hehe) inside there I cannot forget 1 guy from argentina he was fucking funny he was doing many pick ups in the street he had photos with many girls actually he was doing day game but it was natural to him(back in days before 1980 vessels used to stay too much time on the ports)

You are setting yourself up for a life of isolation with one of the absolute worst careers for pickup. There is a reason sailors end up as divorced, child support owing, overweight scumbags. You can't remove yourself from women for months on end and then expect to make up for it. It's doesn't work like that. The rest of the world doesn't care you are on some sort of job hiatus, you will be lumped in with the rest of the unemployed milling about in the middle of the day. There are plenty good paying careers, if you can't give up a couple of extra bucks now you deserve what you get.

1.And what career shall I follow I am 3 years there.I will have to start all over again
and the problem is we have financial crisis.I will have to start all over again.I can also do some land base job but it will take time to enter that field of merchant navy.
2.At least I have 1 advantage I am completely free when I am on the land(6 months)and its true I am isolated but in exchange I get that freedom plus money.
I respect your opinion but what career shall I follow since I already have invested 3 years there.I would be pleased to hear your opinions
thanks for the reply man
I can go to the army navy through my academy but the money are less and in the merchant navy you get so much money.

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And most seamen I know are not fat or divorced or child supporting.Life its not just picking up girls and having sex.
My biggest problem is that I am young and I would prefer to be in the land not only for the women but cause I am isolated from the society.But there is that thoughts inside my mind I know a bunch of guys that continued that job until they were 30 year old.With that system 6 months in-out the vessel but when they reached 30 they found a land based job with shitload of money but in order to find that job they had to pass through the sea in order to connect with the merchant marine jobs of the land that they pay you well.
That's why I am willing to sacrifice my self.
Of course it would be better to stay on the land and get a lot of money but I will have to start from the scratch to start A NEW life out of nowhere how I can do this?I was bad student at high school so I do not have many options(I cannot just abandon my academy and enter another one I have limited choices)
Tell me your opinion what you would do in my position?