I've noticed a trend lately. It has something to do with women, especially in Bakersfield CA. I just got out of a 7 year relationship, and as I am regrowing my ballsack, I have noticed more and more, women getting angry when I do not seek their approval. Why is that?

Example: I'm at a local club. Semi good looking gal walks up (we'll call her HB7). HB7 looks at me, and after a few seconds of eye contact asks "will you buy me a drink?"
"Only if you buy me one"
*HB7 gives a flustered look and storms away*
*I chuckle quietly into my SoCo on the rocks*

This is about as basic an example as I can give. There are many more to come when I find time to post.
Yet the question still stands; Are gals slowly starting to become attracted to chumps who seek approval and validation thru the results they have with women? Or are they falling victim to the "I have a pussy therefore I make the rules" illusion?
Now that I am single, many of the females I know are getting VERY frustrated at the fact that they cannot shake their tail at me and get me to crawl. Who wants a girl like that anyway? What if I'm busy? I have two businesses to run BTW.
I equally invite all gals to come and flirt and play and have a good ol' time. YOU KNOW YOU LIKE IT. Why pretend otherwise?

Am I not rubbing their ego enough or at all?
Should I be?

Example: A cashier caught my eye at the mall. we will call her HB5. Now, It is odd for me to be attracted to anything less than a HB7 but she just had this wierd smile, that, well, you know... I digress: HB5 and I interact over a period of 24 hours, and arrange to meet. We are having fun and she is all over me, touching boldly! As she walks to the juke box, I decide to take her home. I open, she declines WITH HER THIGH IN MY CROTCH AND TIT IN MY CHEST. "I know what you want and I''m not that kind of girl"
"oh really?" - in a playful challenging tone.
The bartender, who is getting jealous now, gets my attention and we chat it up. As I watch the mirror behind the middle shelf booze, HB5 gets silently infuriated and proptly leaves.
Two days later at the bar I have a rather interesting convo with a guy looking for HB5. He shows me a video of HB5 getting gangbanged by 8-9 guys, swallowing load after load, cumming 4 times and walking to the shower at the end with a trail of jizz running down each leg.
Not that kind of girl huh?

Although I have been out of the game for some years now, I find it very easy to get back into it by peeling off layers of incongruence glued on by my former LTR. In fact, I find it liberating to finally be honest with myself and shed all of the restricting psychosis learned from the 'ol ball and chain'. But what is this anomaly I've stumbled upon? Is it due to more incongruence that I have yet to uncover? Or is it geographical? Perhaps my fellow PUAs from Bakersfield may have taken note of the same.

Let us extrapolate...

Standard ASD; it's token; it's expected. Many ways to go with this. "Get your mind out of the gutter we're going to go back and watch a movie. NO TOUCHING THOUGH, u keep your hands to yourself I'm a good boy." Just flip it back on her. Many many other ways to play it though.

IMO you are also playing it correctly with the girls who are asking you to buy them drinks. It's a way of screening for chumps.

Best thing you could do is to keep going out, keep meeting more women and keep having fun and experimenting with various approaches and things like that. Enjoy it.

Most girls don't do this, but there are some who will go out just to get free drinks. Zero interest in meeting new people in this case... So I'm guessing that's what happened in that first situation you mentioned. In the second situation, apparently she is that type of girl. She just doesn't want you to think it. lol

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ah yes. Most girls are afraid of what we think of them.

Here is some extremely recent examples of women getting angry when I do not seek their approval.

As of the past year I have been habitualy seeing an HB8. She is by far most awesome in personality (hence the 8 otherwise HB6 but I digress). She has a very solid social circle that attempted to put their "stamp of approval" on me. This is not difficult for even an HB10 to do. As time has gone by, all of her friends but one has slowly turned and are now plotting against me. Examples are the following:

Friend 1 is my cousins wife. Many strong IOIs including turning to face me and spreading her thighs to allow my entry *ahem* One day she harshly attempts to achieve dominance over me, with the "I have the pussy, therefore I make the rules" standpoint. She does the same to her husband daily (my poor cousin ). I reply by turning her into a piece of entertainment, something I learned from rsd julien.
Friend 1 is now trying to hook up my HB8 with some "beta male"
Not to worry, HB8 knows what she has and will NOT sleep around

Friend 2 is a long time friend of my HB8; married to an afc that I have a lot in common with and would actually like to hang/wing with him. She is INCREDIBLY jealous and controlling. I used to use PUA tech on her, and she loved it! But too much of seeing me ride my motorcycle, run my employees over the phone, make oodles of money, tell stories from shooting competitions, and just flat out not seeking or accepting ANY other girls approval has driven her up a wall. This has resulted in PAID internet background checks and google searches (internet stalking and I aint even kissed her!) in attempt to destroy my bulletproof character. False police reports that I am beating my HB8 ( HB8 sometimes makes me feel guilty for being a PUA because her personality is so crazy awesome). In fact, continues to live with the "abusive delusion" that my HB8 comes to me constantly in tears from the pressure her friends induce. Friend 2 is also trying to hook up my HB8 with another "beta male".

Friend 3 is an ex LTR that I dumped for her infidelity and manipulative behavior. I was AFC then. I did take her virginity though . HB8 is now her enemy after seeing who she really is. This one accused me of raping her . I used a trojan to hack her cell, retrieved her FB password and gave it to everyone. No one likes her. But the point still stands, after a card game, this one became outright insulting in public because I wouldn't sweat under pressure and explain why I wear slacks, or defend the size of my penis.

I'm doing research on what rsd refers to as "beta male shaming" and I too have a sore spot on that. All you little skanks, just cause you want me to f-close AND marry you doesnt give you the right to sabatoge or insult me. Who the f- asked for your little opinions anyway? I wouldn't one night stand any of you because you do not qualify-youre all batshit crazy and controlling! I'd run for the hills!

However, one thing in all of this is common and that is my refusal to qualify and seek their approval. IN FACT, Mr beta male, that I mentioned earlier, recieved everyones stamp of approval and now has all three cupids cheering him on to try to steal HB8! Even to the point of stealing her phone and setting up meetups!

Am I missing something here? tiegirl says its jealousy. I can understand that. However this all started when the shit-tests stopped and the demanding to qualify started. I refuse to qualify. Thats not my job. Its my job to buy, not sell.