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Ok so I've studied game for a while. I've def made major improvement. I was in college and had social circle and inner game transformation. Now I had gotten into trouble, and now I'm on house arrest. I transferred it home also so now I live at home with my parents and I'm on house arrest.
I understand women have many options and I've even, stupidly, have been texting a girl in a different state. I feel like she's just texting me for the attention and I should just cut her off and focus on myself, I just know she's fucking other guys which is not a surprise but it's causing me to go crazy so
since I don't have any other girls and being in my situation I'm scared to tell anyone about it.
Not sure what to do. Any and all advice would be appreciated.
The solution to "you going crazy" is that you need to meet more women and get to know more people in general. Build new social circle.
However since you are in home arrest you probably cant do it right away. So best thing to do is do as much as possible for your "sentance" to end and take a note on that, take as a lesson and do your best not to repeat it again.
You can spend your time constructively at home reading or studding some books on inner game, confidence etc. or topics that you care about.
Point out what you like the most and experiment it right away when you get "released".
As far about your "obsession" over her: this indicates you lack the one part of the self esteem called confidence, since it bothers you so much if she sleeps with other guys.
You are dependent too much on her for your "happiness" which is very immature => unattractive.
So the solution for you as I said in the begging is to take up some balls aka do courage, and meet new people so you prove it to yourself that you are capable of meeting new women every where anytime.
So in general for your question:
"Should you put pause on my game" my answer will be
yes. Put temporarly pause and try to develop a happy single life first - you will notice afterward when you do it women will tend to more attracted to you naturally rather than you trying to force them to do so using some "pick up tricks".