Let me start by saying this girl has brought me dinner, last night put her card down to pay for the meal, and came 45 min to pick me up...But:

After having sex with a girl and in a new relationship you feel a certain amount of sway over a girl. She went from "do you want me to drive from out of state, I want to see you now." To more casual shit. Like she needs to pack? Has to clean her house. IMO good chance she started fking someone else. The only thing is that last night she questions me, asking she is one of how many girls? Asking how many girls have I slept with this month? In 4 months? And kept pushing? Told me a couple months ago she feels like just an option....

Now as we were talking... I almost believe her when she says I'm the only man she's been with in 4 months. Judging from the look on her face. Looks sincerely. She was a virgin as of a few months ago.But...I have a gut feeling she has slut tendencies. Just don't have much trust in her. It ended up with her blowing me in a busy parking lot and fking her in the car.

I'm leaning towards going with my gut feeling, no matter if a few innocent girls get burned in the process. One thing I've learned is to keep it as smooth as possible. Emotion and transparency has to be set aside.

Would a girl bring you dinner, put her credit card down and pay for a meal, drive 45 minutes if she's fking around? If her interest isn't high?

Red flags:
I to hitting the Casino
Didn't remember if we had sex the night before?
Travels out of state with party type girls
Told me she's fked with Molly and Coke
Sarcasm

Green Flags:
Such a tease at first
Not easy to bed
Was legitimately a virgin in mid twenties (cultural)
Didn't know how to give a BJ
Was scared to try doggy and doesn't feel comfortable riding on top
Bringing me dinner etc.

Just an overall strange mix. What's your take on it?

Well I see nobody has answered as yet, so I'll start.
You cannot hold her to any high standard, since you have slut tendencies as well. You let a girl blow you in a busy parking lot and you have sex with her in a car. I find your double-standards a bit strange. She is nice in many ways according to you. Let's face it, you are not currently capable of maintaining a relationship with the classy kind of girl you actually want. The way I see it, this girl is not half-bad and you said it yourself: she was a virgin until recently. You need to stop living in this fantasy world where you can be a manslut but your girl must be an angel.
You hold qualities such as chastity and politeness in high regard, but you do not exude those qualities yourself. Therefore this girl is the best you can have, and it is time to seriously pursue a relationship with her.

I think you are pretty lucky to have a girl like that. If I were you, I would have never left this one and trusted her more. Instead of thinking over negative sides that you don't even know for sure just see how much positive there is.

My last gf had an advanced PHD, worked at a prestigious medical center, and was late for brain surgery (learn a technique) cuz of fking each other's brains out. Due to a busy schedule I had a drop a banging 9 who was cool as shit.

I'm going with my gut and breaking it off.nKnowing I can get a more intelligent, better looking, and girl who is better in bed within short time...Not worth my freedom and the risk involved. In the mean time going to focus on career and university, keep women as enjoyable company. Easily replaceable.

I was just considering something more serious with girl.