| If a woman looks at you, lock eyes and giver her an IOI. If she returns the IOI, approach her. The best way to get over the anxiety of thinking "attractive women can't possibly be interested in me" is VERY simple. simply raise your standards. Make a list of everything you find attractive or valuable in a female companion "passionate, free-spirited, caring, etc." and start judging women off of that, rather than simply how good looking they are. Unless the woman is shallow, you're aesthetic appearance will be very low on their "list" of qualities they are looking for, so you simply have to do the same.
If a woman accepts a date, unless she's just looking for a free meal or you came off so lonely and needy that they're just giving you a "pity date" (easiest way avoid this is to simply not act needy) then you know they already have attraction towards you.
As far as keno goes, you have to treat keno as if it is no big deal. The very first thing you need to do when you meet her for the date is make hand to hand contact (I'll add a bow as if going in to kiss her on the wrist, if she doesn't move her hand away go for it, women love it and find it chivalrous and charming ), If she's wearing a necklace, comment on it and brush your hand against her sternum as you inspect it.
If it's a dinner date, simply engage the keno before you're seated. Guide her into the restaurant with your hand in the small of her back when opening the door and walking to the table, gently guide her into her seat with your hands on her shoulder when you seat her. Don't worry too much about keno once you're both seated if you're sitting opposite sides of the table. If you want to be ballsy, sit adjacent to her if there's four chairs or you're in a rounded booth, which will give you the opportunity to rest your hand on her lap, guide her hand to rest on your lap, or rest your hand on her shoulder if you come in close to tell her something saucy or secretive.
As far as kissing goes, simply assume that every woman expects a kiss at the end of a date, because 99% of them do.
Hope this helps. You're already getting dates with women so you know you're already better than the AFCs, just work on removing women from the pedestal you're placing them on and everything else will come naturally.
Edit: NEVER ASK A WOMAN IF THEY'RE SINGLE
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