I've been dating this girl and i'm not happy at all with her



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 03, 2014 11:06 pm 
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Damn dude, finish this relationship right now. You're not only treating her wrongly, but you're also weakened by this relationship.


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 03, 2014 11:25 pm 
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Dude... You're still with this depressing stuff? How often do you approach? Have you met any pickup guys in your city?

If you're talking about the last girl I asked you guys about this ones a different girl but.... she isnt any better looking and this time she officially became my gf.... FML

How often do I approach you ask? Well I stopped going clubbing and bar hopping because it just wasn't working out at all so I usually approach whenever I see the opportunity to do so which sadly isn't as often as i'd like it to be. If I had a good opportunity at a better looking gf i'm gonna bail on my current one ASAP!

As for pickup guys in my city well.... I only met one through meetup.com and he was pretty useless because all he did was take me to the club and leave me on my own from there....

Look, if you want to improve your love life, you're going to have to put in the work. That means approaching a ton and improving your inner game. No excuses. If one wing doesn't work out, find another. If another doesn't work, find another. If you refuse to get out there and put in the work, sorry but I can't feel bad for you. Stick with the chick if you know you aren't going to change things. Because then at least you'll have something. IF you leave her, be prepared to approach a shit ton. If you can't do that then stay.


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2014 12:51 pm 
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She didn't "officially become your girlfriend" out of nowhere.

You are a man. Act like it. She can't force you to be her boyfriend, and you have the ability to walk away at any time.

Drop her and improve (and have a better life), swallow your fear and take the harder road, or give up and date an ugly girl.

Up to you.

Watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8kZg_ALxEz0


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2014 4:51 pm 
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She didn't "officially become your girlfriend" out of nowhere.

You are a man. Act like it. She can't force you to be her boyfriend, and you have the ability to walk away at any time.

Drop her and improve (and have a better life), swallow your fear and take the harder road, or give up and date an ugly girl.

Up to you.

Watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8kZg_ALxEz0
Always a classic. Over the top for some scenarios but too spot on for this kid.

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2014 6:55 pm 
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I have the impression this guy isn't listening to us...

Listen, Giants88... We all here have given you many suggestions on how you can improve your life, now it's up to you to put the effort in.
If you want to change the situation you are in, then don't make up excuses and get out of your house. If you don't like clubbing do daygame. If you have lower self-esteem work on your inner game. If you have problems with approach anxiety work on it. If you can't find a good wingman keep searching but don't forget to go out alone as well.
We can't do the work you have to do. Now it's your moment, so grab your balls and start improving your game and yourself.

Little tip --> fisrt step: break up with your gf, no matter what the chances are that you will have a new one in the next 4 months. Dude, you have your whole life, not months...


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2014 8:18 pm 
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if you arent happy just move on- better have the heartache now rather than later and waste more time

i learned the hard way- you cant change people

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 05, 2014 7:27 pm 
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Yeah I totally agree because I learned that the hard way too

you really can't change people until they themselves want to do it


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