Hello guys. my name is Ariel.
couple days ago my girl came over. I brougt champagne for a fun night in.
As the situation got deep, I did the most stupidest mistake ever.
I tought out loud that I prefer hanging in a club right now.
Right there the girl told me to take her home immediatly.
I tryed talk some sense in her, but she stuck to her wish.
I took here home and all the way to her place i kept quite.
30 metters from her house i stooped the car and talked to her about what heppend.
we fought alittle the settled it down.
after that i drove right back and called her when i got home, she dide'nt answer it and the same thing heppend the next day.
After two days of not talking to each other I, wrote a massege saying "I, am soory i had a lot of fun with you and we need to talk."
Again she diden't reply yet.
What should I, do to ger things right agian.

Ty for you'r help in advance, Ariel.

She was willing to come over and fuck you, and you told her you'd rather go to a club?
Why didn't you just slap her in the face?

Then you tried kissing her ass?

Better keep looking.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Ya buddy, you're done with her.

Why on earth would you say that to her?

Just to let you know. It was not you who was supposed to talk some sense into her, it was she who was supposed to talk some sense into you. When you are with a girl, the thing you want to show is that she is the only person interesting to you and everyone else disappears. It's not what you were saying to her, rather what you were thinking. What this action of yours said to her is; I am bored with you alone, I need other people to keep me company while I push through the night with you.

There is a rule that needs to be learned by guys to be indifferent, but yours is the perfect example where you went from indifferent to a jerk. Learn from it...

I know I did a stupid mistake and I dide'nt even mean it.
We almost had sex. we were so close.
Ty for the comments guys, but you realy think there is no way to turn it up side down?
I still want her.

So, you were about to fuck her.... just about to fuck her then you said you'd rather be in a club? Haha... man, chalk this down as a funny moment of you cock blocking yourself and use it as a story to tell your mates. At least some good comes out of it! Hahaha.

Seriously though, she's a bit nuts if she's going ape shit over suggesting you go to a club... unless, of course, there's more to this story than you just saying "Hmm, i'd love to go to a club right now." Sure, she wanted the capital "D" but for her to go nuts over that is crazy behaviour. She should have hung in there unless you were seriously insulting to her.

He didn't suggest going to a club, from his first post he said "I prefer hanging in a club right now". Why is it so strange she would want to leave when she was expecting a night alone with him, have sex, and then he pretty much says "I don't like being alone with you".

Otherwise yes, it is a great funny story, a great learning experience.

About getting her back, sure you can do it, but it would take time and work, to prove with your actions that she alone is enough for you.

@sxstrp Ty friend for your reply. finaly someone who try to help and not judge.
Do you have any tips for me to make it right ?
To show her that i want her and to get closer agian ?

You heard the on little sentence you wanted to hear.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I got her back ! Ty for the help guys

Congrats, you could share what you did for everyone to learn