I'm not here to get girls.
I'm here to get me to where I want to be.

I am an Actor and Musician who lives in Cardiff and currently studies. I am 20 years old 6 foot, good looking guy with a series of limiting beliefs which I am sick of. I have a lot going for me: I am sociable and I am empathetic but I am crippled with low self confidence when it comes to women.

I realise that I do not understand the basic social dynamics of attraction.

I have had attractive girlfriends in the past and I haven't got a problem with talking to girls but the reason I am able to get these girls is because they see me perform and they realise my social proof. My issue is that I am unable to demonstrate my worth to a complete stranger. I haven't got a bad-ass attitude and I get embarrassed when the subject of sex comes up in conversation. I recently broke up with my 2 year girlfriend which has only compounded the problem.

I have trouble showing a girl that I'm interested and generally I am angry that I have become so much of a pussy.

But! I am doing something about it.

I have done the 30 day lifestyle challenge. I have been reading books on Cold Reading, NLP, Robert Greene, Neil Strauss, Mystery and ect. I have been going out every night for the past 2 months. I have been smashing my fear of AA. I have got numbers, I have made out with girls in the club, I have got day 2's and I've closed. All because of this awesome thing called "Game."

I would never have been able to do this 2 months ago.

And I don't want to stop.

If you're around Cardiff let's go out and game.
Remember me because McGrath is a name you will hear again.