This is a common occurance for me; it is sometimes flattering that I have a positive reputation with men and own a positive reputation BUT i'm pretty sure that women neither seem to care or are open to my approaches despite that men already give me the DHV's i need.

Is this a common thing? is there a such thing as men taking up all of your space because they admire you for different reasons that perhaps women find you dull or is it because maybe women are satisfied with the other guys that may not be as attractive, strong, smart, etc (most of the time the men i see women "leave" with do not fit these characteristics at all).

This is kind of leaving me confused, i have the tools, i just need to learn how to actually apply it on the field, but i feel as if although men give me a lot of respect women couldn't give 2 shits, even if i am being forward and trying to escalate things.

I'm confused, and i need a place to start.

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PUA Maxim: Leave the woman better than you found her.

When you cold approach a female. If your being nervous, she will see that as being scared of other men also. It does not matter if other men worship you, she cannot see your DHVs just by looking at you.

Basically if you are not confident talking to her you are a pussy frightened of lions, tigers and bears.

Some women are just bad news just like some men are just bad news.

You are normal.

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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
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The Lay Reports.
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It should also be noted that you cannot rely entirely on status and "value" to get a girl on your dick. There is a lot more to game than that. So you should also work on immersing her in the interaction with you, sexually escalating, and as the prior respondent said, not being nervous because women can smell a scared dude a mile away.

-Credit, Gunwitch

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These hos ain't loyal

if you are alpha with men, then you must have at least some attractive qualities.

Talking to women is still different than to talking to men. I suspect you have not learned how, although you may be a cool guy already. You need lots of practice, so you can feel comfortable around women, and just 'be yourself' like you are around men.

Girls will then start to like you. And, then you will have to learn how to covert this interest into sex/ relationships. As the others have said merely being 'high value' will not get you laid itself.

EDIT: I just had a look at your twitter. Im going to make a judgement from it: You seem very manly, a man's man, like beer, gym and fuck chicks... kind of thing. Guys often confuse this for real masculinity, and overtly showing this kind of vibe comes across as try hard. (It is just a guess dont take offence to it). Real masculinity is someone who is calm and centred, free to express themselves in their own manner, sets the pace, judges themselves by their own standards not those of others, it is kind of hard to describe

like this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nTomKxvEVz0

I get a strong Carlos Xuma vibe from this post.

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What do you mean? should i look him up?

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PUA Maxim: Leave the woman better than you found her.

No, that's a great big rabbit hole.

He's a smart guy, probably by far the most researched and knowledgeable of any significant PUA coach. But his defining feature is paired with the fact that he over analyzes things. I read some of your other posts, and you seem very, very left brained. I suspect your biggest issue with women is vibing. Girls aren't logical, and it's hard to lead them when you're not in sync with them.

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RSDTyler

Am I the only person who finds vibing with girls easier than vibing with men?

What are you exactly doing when you approach? How are you approaching and what are you saying?

If you sounds like a robot with routines and pickup lines, you're coming out as fake. Women are human beings, like men. There's nothing different. If you act civil and friendly, I bet not a single girl would reject you. At least they'd give you the time to express yourself before deciding if they want you or not. You have to be more natural, try watching videos they will help you more than books. See how successful people approach and vibe with girls, it'll help you big time. See what fits you best and do it.

I find it almost impossible to vibe with men, because vibing is usually a learned social skill, and most men do not possess it. It took me a while to realize this. I always had an ability to vibe with a single girl, but group vibing was something I didn't naturally "get". Once I did, I realized that the group vibe was mostly just the collective girls. The other guys were not in sync with the group. Some girls(especially fat ones) don't know how to vibe either.

Every time I'm getting on well with men, it's because we're engaged in a good activity. Everything is defined by action. If the situation sucks, I can't get on with men. With women, I can. Say we're outside waiting on a cab for five minutes and it's rainy and humid outside. Though girls are WAY more sensitive to weather, I can link up with them, and keep things more positive. Men? Ha! The group energy is probably going to fall off a cliff. It will only recover once we're doing something fun again.

Despite its woo-woo sounding terms, the best way I can describe it is energy. It's like a 3d venn diagram, where everything overlaps. It's like, I have my own personal energy, and then there's the energy between me an a particular person. Then there's group and environment energy. Environment energy is something everyone has felt. You walk into a room and can tell it's cool or boring in an instant. That's your environment energy.
They all interact with each other, and they all matter. If you've ever thought to yourself "this place doesn't seem fun tonight" go somewhere else. You're probably right.

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