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Thanks Pitts,
@Charles
She did not dump me, she rejected me.
She showed genuine interest for about a month or so, I didn't even like her, after she stopped showing interest I started to orbit her around, constant messaging on facebook, texts, following her around in University etc etc,
Then I mustered courage to ask her out(even though I was literally stuttering for first 10 minutes

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and as a result got this answer: "I'll pretend I didn't hear that, never tell me that again"
=( sad day that was. after that we've ignored each other for about 7 or 8 months despite seeing each other daily, we only spoke once(and she asked if I've seen someone, I gave a quick one-word response and that was it)
Well that doesn't sound too bad - apart from being a little needy. You probably missed your window though, right before becoming an orbiter.
As long as you didn't tell her you liked her or were in love with her, asking her out should have been fine... Provided you phrased it like "let's grab a couple beers" and not "let's go on a date".
It may have just freaked her out...
Ideally, you go to this social gathering with a girl who's hot as fuck. Way hotter than the other girl. You politely say hello to her, ask how she's been, then move on and be social.