Let's say you're out and meet a girl. You know she probably won't fuck you that night. How do you try to ensure she'll text you back? Try this.

When you're talking to a girl at a party or bar with alcohol, tease her about being drunk (doesn't matter how much she has had to drink, or even if she's had a drink at all).

Tell her you don't think she'll remember you tomorrow.

Just straight up be like, "No, you won't remember who I am, you're way too drunk".

At the point you get her number (this may not be as important), text her, "I bet you won't remember me tomorrow. - [insert your name here]"

Every time I've done this, I've had a girl text me back the next day with something like, "I do remember you!" - I even once had a girl tell me, "The only reason I remembered you out of all the other guys was because you told me I wouldn't".

Remember, if a girl is out and drinking, being remembered by her is one of the most important aspects - this helps key you in her mind.

Very solid idea.
I'll have to try this.

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Yeah, the situation I used it in last night - I wander into a frat party with a buddy of mine.

There's a few girls there, and a few fraternity brothers. It's the fraternity that the intern at work belongs to, so I'm quickly accepted.

One of the fraternity brothers is super ripped, and he's chatting with this brand new freshman girl who has been in town for two days.

My buddy and and I start chatting with her too, and she's having fun. The brother is able to pull her upstairs for a bit (but the window was open and everyone saw them making out, which spooked her (side note: logistics fellas)), so they come back downstairs. At this point she's hanging out with us, and letting the brother chill out. She tells him she is going to go home as she has to get up early - whether she did or not, no idea. I decided I didn't have any logistics in order and I should leave.

At this point I grab her number, and tell her that she won't remember who I am, she's too drunk.

"I'm not drunk! I've only had a few drinks!"

And then I text that to her. My buddy also gets her number.

I wake up this morning to a text at 8 am, "Ha! I actually do remember you"

My buddy did not get a text back from his text.

I'm not into routines and text lines, but this idea is great.

She's going to live up to the standards you set for her. Women literally love challenges and they'll do anything to show you that they're better at something. Eventually, she's going to text you to prove you wrong, and you can, of course, start from that point.

Great idea, keep it up.

I don't see any problem with routine stuff that you come up with yourself and that you know has a decent chance of working - at a certain point it just becomes part of your personality. I used it last night on the hottest girl at a house party and got an immediate response back (though to be fair, I had preselection because I was dragged there by a cute Irish girl I met at Starbucks earlier that day). This line is like girl crack.

Your a Genius!

I like it. Thank you!

haha funny enough, i use something very similar. As she is giving me her number, I tell her " hold on a second.. you are really drunk.. I don't want you to be another number on my phone.." she'll say something like " no i'm not drunk at all.. I'll remember you" Then tell her " ok fine, we'll see" and put her number in.. Just a side note, make sure when getting her number to let her know that you are planning to meet up with her soon and that you won't be another guy that will chit chat with her when she is bored..

Another thing i like to do is send her a text right there and then.. Or just ring her number and save your name under your name.

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I tried something like this a while back. It seemed to make things go worse, rather than better. Not entirely sure why, but I suspect it may have been "player vibe" enhancing.

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I'm pretty sure it's not the fact that you told her that you want to see her again that put her off.. Many girls give their numbers out to anyone that asks for them.. But that doesn't mean they will see the guys again.. At that point, it's easier and more polite for her to give out her number while feeling validated than to give a reason why she can't give it away. If she is interested in you, and you tell her you want to see her again, you raise your chances of seeing her again.. If your game sucks and she is not really keen to see you again, no matter what you say or do before leaving with her number, she won't see you again.. Exceptions happens from time to time, but don't rely on that. So my best guess was that girls weren't really that interested in you ( no hard feelings man) and that's why they didn't see you again..That last part is a small detail only.

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No, I mean the "I'm not your text buddy" part.

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Preventing texting buddy syndrome is an active area of research for me lately - I get enough leads that I can still generate in person girls with sufficient frequency, but it'd be nice to be able to summon almost any girl out of my number list, Tinder or OkCupid at any given day or hour (I'm ambitious - obviously there will never be a 100% success rate). I'm sorta trying to write an ideal girl texting app (I'm a software developer) for my own personal use, which I may make commercially available. It'd be analytics at first and eventually might give advice or even write texts itself.

My feeling (I haven't analyzed this very rigorously yet) is that it's all in the transition - the process of going from teasing or talking to invitation. I'm thinking of a few ways to get around that:

1. emotion spike prior to invite
2. going for the meet-up immediately ("are you bored? let's do x" works wonders, as does, "wow, what you're doing sounds boring, let's do y")
3. offering a combination of shinies that sounds fantastic (cookie dough and netflix in my tests).
4. letting the girl know that I'm not interested in texting for much longer

Based on my subjective experience, 3 gets a high response rate, but low-moderate meet-up rate (relatively standard), 2 gets a higher meet-up rate, but with a higher potential to push the girl away, and 1 seems variable.

I've only been testing 4 for a little bit, but my guess is that if you've generated any interest it will work better, because you're actively taking yourself away from the situation, i.e. the often-talked about, "dread game". The finesse of using it is to basically make it an ultimatum without sounding butthurt.

The number one predictor of response rate I'm finding though for both texts and online is length.

I suspect ideal text and Tinder length is about 20-40 characters.

I suspect ideal OkCupid message is 60-120 (maybe slightly longer)