I recall a few theories from a couple of years ago I would like to reexamine today. I would like some help on determining whether these things are true, and if there are ways to improve in these areas? My understanding of things are as follows...

1. If you are positive and high energy - a stimulating and funny guy - you give the girl a lot of fun fun fun, and raise her buying temperature. But...

2. ...if you don't alter between emotional states, making her feel anything other than "fun", she won't associate the positive emotions with you as a person. There won't be an anchor in her mind, or rather an association, to you. This means that she at any time can be interrupted by some random guy and go home and have sex with him, even if you did all the work.

3. You can intentionally create such an anchor in her mind by doing something that may seem weird... Namely, disappear! (Such anchors are usually created naturally in normal interactions, so this isn't necessary). You have to time it right though. As you are talking to her, and you feel that you are on your way towards an emotional pitch (maybe you are telling a joke, and are just about to deliver the punch line), you make sure to have eye contact with her. You presence is what she will remember as fun, so she has to see you! When she is at her emotional pitch, laughing (you have delivered the punch line), you excuse yourself and walk away (maybe you visit the bathroom or something). You need to do this as her emotions are heading towards the pitch, or at the pitch. It's important not doing it when her feelings are cooling down again! This will create an emotional vacuum, a feeling of emptiness and maybe boredom. This will create the anchor. Appear again, give her more stimuli, and repeat the process two or three times in total.

Other related theories are that it is a positive thing to increase her heart rate, by scaring her or something (just make sure she knows that she is safe at all times). Yet another thing is to go through as many different emotional states as possible - an emotional roller coaster - to create a stronger bond.

Now... Is there anyone who knows whether these things actually work, how to execute them in a better way than described here, and if there are more things to learn about this somewhere?

Yes. Ups and downs. A steady emotional state isn't efficient for a certain girlie demographic. Anger. Laughter. Sadness. Happiness. Safety. Danger. If you can give her all of those emotional states, she's hooked.

Does it work? It works for certain age ranges. However, it doesn't work for the marrying age demographics. For the marrying age demographics, what the girl usually wants is stability-- emotional stability, financial stability, relationship stability, psychological stability and so on as long as it's related to stability.

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It depends, like most things.

Some girls are incredibly reserved, some are middle of the road, some are cray cray. where they fall on the spectrum determines what you should do to stimulate her emotionally. But, remember this emotional stuff is just one aspect. It CAN get you laid, but it's better if it's just part of game, combined with social and sexual aspects

*credit - Gunwitch

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