Hey guys, so when I want to approach a girl I look at her first and keep looking at her for a few seconds until I wait for her to make eye contact with me before I go up and try to talk to her. Sometimes, when I do that the girl would look back at me and give a smile; however, most of time they either will look at me and give me somewhat of a smile with lips pressed tightly together or give no eye contact to me at all. I know that some PUAs like Owen Cook say that you don't have to wait for the girl to give eye contact to you to approach her, but I have read stuff and watched videos of other PUAs demonstrating and saying that the guy has to first wait for the girl to look you in the eye before approach her. Also, I feel like if a girl is not making eye contact at me and smiling at me before I approach, then I assume that she would not be interested in talking to me. What do you guys think of all of this?

Just calibrate if she gives you a good reaction or a bad reaction. You can instantly tell how well/bad it will as soon as you see her reaction.

Of course, you could break the ice verbally like TD and win her over that way. But sometimes, it's nice to pick and choose the good leads. Wish I had the same energy as TD, but I do not. So do what ever makes you feel comfortable.

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You're new to all this right? Probably coming out of your comfort zone especially in regards to this?

The best lesson is not to over think these things. Having said that it works either way but you need a certain finesse in each approach but mostly the comfort in your own actions and confidence to back that all up.

When you essentially check a girl out with eye contact don't glare just passively look in their direction and at their eyes when they notice you and check you out too(Hold eye contact until they break). If a girl passes by don't be afraid to look her in the eye as she moves by for a split second(She will notice). When a girl takes notice of this her interest is peeked and naturally, if you're not creepy or weird looking, she's going to want to find out and most likely come in proximity to you(Women have game too but theirs is very passive and relies on subtle hints that they want you to show interest).

If you want to approach a woman without getting eye contact just go up to them and gently squeeze their shoulder to get their attention while saying "Hi, what's your name?" Personally, I do this with girls across the room if I have to go over there regardless(Getting a drink, going to a friend or whatever) then introduce myself and have a short chat. If I need to go and talk to a friend it's fine. I just say I have to go and on my way back i'll give her a wink as I pass by her. You can always use this short introduction to see how receptive she is, get her name, where she's from and simple information to identify her with then engage at a later point.

When I give eye contact I generally don't approach. I wait for them to approach me or get in close proximity then say "Hi" or whatever comes to mind. Probably the best form of eye contact i've found is when you're talking to someone and you notice a girl behind your friend. Look over his or her shoulder(Your friends) and look in your targets direction. When she looks at you give a slight smile while talking to your friend and make eye contact with your target(Remember, you're talking over your friends shoulder). This is dominant and leadership behaviour. It's also showing you have a lot of confidence in how important you are to your friend, you're able to multitask and you're not afraid to show the girl you're into them. If you're feeling especially daring during this you can motion for them to come to you.

Be welcoming and you'll get the girls coming to you.

You can just go besides a girl and lightly tap her shoulder first, without looking her; and let her look at you first.

This move have the same effects of let the girls look at you first.

And once she looks at you first, after you tap her shoulder, look back on her, give her a smile and direct open her.

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