| There are dozens upon dozens of techniques that will allow approaching. The perfect technique to create comfortableness is the newbie approach by going out to a large store or a mall and everyone you pass say "hi" to them or "hey". That will create comfortableness. You can also easily create some excuse in your situation to talk to them when you need some information or something, but make it reasonable and something you really do want to know or need because if it does go right like you want you'll look like an idiot when she finds out the truth.
I think creating a situation is the best way. I've actually had much success in the past with going up to a female and just say to them as I look into their eyes "You know I have something to say, you're very beautiful...and that's all I had to say. Enjoy the rest of your evening." Then I give a grin and walk away. You can change up the beautiful to hot or cute...never use gorgeous! That creates comfortableness, but you have to have some pretty hardcore guts to do what I just said, some people will look at it as you're just kissing ass. With that said, I've done that before to a complete stranger around her 3 friends who were all female and I just walked up and did it, 20 minutes later her and me were making out and dry humping and after that the rest is history.
I think you get the idea of what I'm talking about, haha. Women are Humans just like Men are Humans. You probably have more trouble talking to Women than Men, but there shouldn't be a problem there. It's all sexual tension of how you put them on some high pedestal when they are in fact normal. Just don't weird them out, but there's no harm in saying hello. There's many techniques, but it seems like you need to create comfortableness and find the timing because sometimes females are busy and you're totally interrupting them, but if you create a situation like I said earlier...say you find this hot chick in this store and you want to talk to her, ask her where something is that you glanced at her shopping cart....I mean study her and what she's doing. If you see she has shampoo or some food product like cereal...ask her where the shampoo aisle is or the cereal aisle is. If it's easy to find the aisle just say you have problems finding things or you've been stressed that day which might even open new conversation avenues. It basically gives you an opener so you don't look like some weirdo asking weird fucking questions, haha.
Actually you can use this technique with so many things, like in a club or even a restaurant...it might seem out of place, but if you glance at people's food on another table and you think it looks good or tasty ask her what that's called on the menu. Of course that depends on the kind of restaurant and how appropriate it is to do that. I've done it once and it worked, but haven't had many chances to do that.
Basically the key is to JUST DO IT...you don't ask her out exactly. I tend to go with the conversation starter, and work my way up or just do it for fun. Too many have these high expectations so when they do get rejected or it doesn't go how they wanted they are like ""WTF HAPPENED??? I SUCK!!!!"" Expectations only create failure and then future failures because you smack yourself over the head with a brick about it when it's unneeded creating lack of CONFIDENCE and CONFIDENCE is a must in everything you do.
PM me if you need any tips on CONFIDENCE or further techniques concerning APPROACHING or just any help in any situation really. Good luck, hope I helped!
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