For online dating, it's a quite a different game to your standard, and there are certainly a few resources on this forum that can help if you go down this route.
The first topic you want to look at for help with online dating is this one:
online-direct-to-date-vt57068.html
On top of that, if you look through the
Online Sarging section, then there are multiple other topics already around you can read through. If none of them answer your questions or give the assistance needed, that is the best place to post a topic requesting help with online dating, however most of your questions should be answered by the topic above and other topics already throughout the section!