Hey guys,

Today I had a first date with a girl i met on tinder. Beforehand she told me she is really shy. But when I met her she was very open and we were having a good. We went to a park and got some icecream. It went really well and I realy felt we had a connection. When the time came to say goodbye i gave her a little kiss on her lips. So I thought it was a perfect first date. But when I send her a message again she told me she wasn't really sure about a second date. And now im a bit afraid she doesnt want a second date. I find this weird because for me it felt like everything went right. What can I do to get her for a second date with me?

Sorry for my english, im not a native english speaker.

She isn't interested in a second date at all. You cannot convince her otherwise at this point because then it would seem overly needy which isn't attractive at all. You can, however, correct what you did wrong so that you do not make the same mistakes in the future but I cannot tell you what you did wrong because I'm not sure how you're date went. I would love to help you though. Care to post a step by step account of the date?

It happens, man.

You'll have dates where they go great for you, but not for her.

We all have.

Doesn't mean you did something wrong. She may just not have been feeling it.

If that's the message you got (that she's not sure about a second date), don't push it... She's probably not interested and is being polite.

"No worries. It was great to meet you." -- is a good reply....

THEN go on a date with someone else.

I send her this after the date:

me- I had a really good time! When do we start our Harrypotter marathon(she is a big HP fan)

she- I really enjoyed it aswell.

me- I enjoyed it so much that i would like to see you again.

she- Yes, i really enjoyed it aswell but i still have tot hink about a second date.

and then we just continued talking for a bit and she hasnt replyd to my last text now since a day. Should i just give her a call and ask if she is interested in a second date?

No. Everyone here told you she does not seem interested. If you contact her ONE more time before she initiates with you, you have a 110% chance of never seeing her again.

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OP: Did you completely not read my reply to you?

I did but isnt it a bit weird/strange if she doesnt reply to my last text and then I suddenly say "No worries. It was great to meet you."?

.........

You should have sent that instead of the last text.

Or nothing.

She does not want to see you again. You get that, right?

its hard to tell because i dont have all the details but dont let it get to you- if i was you i would move on because that was a clear hint she doesnt want a second date- if i had to guess you just didnt break rapport enough

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