Shes a friend of a girl I know. And seems we have some things in common, shes 18 Im 23. I dont know how to start talking to her... Would it be better to add her first or just send a message?

A friend of mine told me that it would be a good idea to replace my current profile photo with one in which I do my hobbies, painting and music. And he says i should a blunt on the photo since she also loves weed.

Any advice?

Yeah, posting a picture of yourself doing something illegal is a spectacular idea.

Not the main target of the photo, just like a subtle detail. She has a lot of photos about weed and her smoking. I dont want to be thaaat exagareted

Honestly, try to slip in under the radar. I have not had much success with online dating, and can't recommend it. I've tried everything. I have lots of good photos showing me doing fun stuff, I have a pretty good sense of humor, but I can't seem to maintain interest. There just seems to be not enough connection with them this way. I would try to hang around her and see if she expresses interest. Do not approach her with your sentiments if you have no indication of interest from her (1 is strong eye contact).

Nearly every approach that I was very direct with where I had no indication of interest from the woman, I failed. Hang around her, show your value and commonalities (you can throw weed in here) but be subtle.

My most successful pick up was when I talked for a good 8-10 minutes and demonstrated myself as a valuable man by joking, showing I have similar interests, being confident, and listening to her.

Otherwise, you are largely wasting your time. Don't count on getting noticed by posting photos somewhere.

She's 18 and if she finds you attractive at 23 it's because she likes mature men. Posting immature shit about weed and whatever is not going to score you any points. If you're talking to her and it comes up in conversation go ahead and talk about it but don't EVER come across as being too into it. It's a huge turn off even if you're both crazy about the stuff.

Just add her to FB and send her a message like "Hey, that night we met was crazy." just start off with anything then work on asking her out... or ask her over to yours when the conversation inevitably turns to weed so you two can smoke a bowl. Just make sure she brings up the topic of weed. When she does just invite her over. "I've got some good stuff the other day, my dealer said it was special on account of me being awesome(Whatever the fuck you say, dude)." She'll say some shit about what it's like then just invite her over. "Why don't you come over?"

Do you want to bang this girl or do you want to date her? What's your goal? And think about it alot before responding.

First bit of advice, the girl isn't going to sleep with you because you both like weed. Lots of people like weed. Weed is a great way to get her back to your place and escalate though. I'd leave it off your pictures and just bring it up after you have her intrigued.

Ive been recently dumped by my long time girlfriend (8 years) and she slept with someone else. I dont think im ready for another relationship in the close future. I feel terrible about myself now, like im less man or something like that. Im not interested in getting any serious with this girl because of my background.

I know weed isnt a good reason bu itself to have sex, but maybe she could find me different, since Ive seen most guys that add her are those kind of guys who have their biceps as profile photos. I discovered she likes art, weed and dogs like me... so maybe I can show myself as someone interesting and different?

Just do it.

There's no 100% method of success...

The 100% method of failing is doing nothing..

You want to tell a cool story with your photos. The first one should be you doing something fun or interesting. Have a photo where you have pre-selection as well. I don't recommend posting photos of you doing anything illegal.

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