I am going to try to keep this brief, but I need some advice.

I've chatted with the front desk girl at my gym a lot. She always appeared to really like my style... I am different from a lot of the guys where I live. I never really hit on her, because I just don't want to date a girl that works where I work out 5 + days a week.

So two weekends ago (e.g. about 10 days ago), she grabs me and hands me her number as I am walking out of the gym. I was somewhat taken aback... first time that has happened to me. I tell her I will call her. I call her a couple of days later, say we should meet up the following Sunday night, but I got really drunk Saturday night and I took a girl home with me. So I was hung over ALL DAY and completely spent of sexual energy. Couldn't make it that night... so it kind of fizzled.

See her on Friday when I am going to the gym. I apologize for not setting up the date telling her I had a lot going on, she says she is available after work on Sunday and I tell her I will call her on Sat / Sun to set something up. I text her on Saturday and say... "Let's meet up on Sunday at [XXX] gin joint for a few drinks at 8:00. Please confirm that that works for you" No response.

So I call her on Sunday (yesterday). She answers. We talk for a bit about working out / how beautiful the day is / blah blah blah... I asked her out for Sunday night and she sounded a bit non committal and says her dad is in town and she was going to have dinner with him, but she could cancel... I told her we could meet during the week too. Says she would get back to me in 30 mins to let me know. No response from her all day.

What do I do here? She is very attractive (maybe 25 or 26, California bikini model body). Call her again, or just wait to see her at he gym again and tease her?

Don't sweat it.

Get it? Gym-related post? Sweat?

Ha...

Anyway, no need to worry. Just see if you can bother her with some flirty texts while she's having dinner with her dad and arrange another time to meet later when you see her at the gym again.

She already had dinner, last night .

Think I should just text her a few times with teasing texts? I know I will see her next weekend, because I work out on the weekends when she is working... probably should not let it go that long, right?

Should I call her in the interim and try to set up a date during this week?

FYI. To bring closure this one, I called her Tuesday to set up drinks for last night or tonight.

No reply.

Why on earth would a girl give you her number (note - I did not ask for it... she handed it to me with a little heart on it as I was walking out of the gym), and then completely ignore you?

Man, that is pure awesomeness!

Hahaha, what else can I do but laugh at that?

First of many times this will happen to you.

You know why they do it? Girls are fucking crazy; that's why.

Hot girls all have ADD because everyone's waving their shiny penises in front of them all the time.

Can't help but get shiny object syndrome.

Gotta get good at holding their attention better than everyone else.

Why are you suddenly keen on her when you couldn't give a fuck about her by having sex with someone else and then being too hungover to meet up with her. Seems to me she's lost complete interest in you because you let her down by being an unreliable fucking jerk. She was probably quite apprehensive at giving you her number in the first place dick head and you've blown it. Well done you stupid cunt. I hope she tells you to go fuck yourself.

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