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PostPosted: Sat Aug 16, 2014 3:29 am 
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Also what to say in terms of callback humor?

We met tonight at the bar I work at. It had been a year since I saw her and I wanted to get her number she was with friends/family and just got away so we hardly said two words to eachother. I negged her about not grabbing my number back then I told her she can have it. She also pointed at she remembered where I lived and what my name was despite me not remember so I teased her and said she probably knew my number as I was giving it to her. She told me she worked for newspaper and that she didn't want to do that but she just "fell into it" I joked that she would be saying the same thing about us at some point. She txted me when she got home and said it was nice to see me again. She's really my type, should I call her sunday?


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 16, 2014 3:51 am 
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Yea, give her a call whenever you feel like it, have a purpose behind your call (set up a date)
The conversation should consist of light hearted fun chatter, flirting or w/e you want, be cool. Figure out when she is free and move things forward. Good luck, this girl likes you, just be yourself and dont play any games. Make sure she enjoys you.

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PostPosted: Sat Aug 16, 2014 4:34 am 
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Weird question but as I haven't had a date for awhile or in this situation(learnt how to drive) Let's say I drive to pick up a girl for the date. She lives somewhere I am not familar with but still probably expects me to find bar/place to eat. What should I do? go somewhere a little out of her area(I still wouldn't know where to go since I don't go out much) or ask her for somewhere we can go near her area? my house isn't free either because I live with family at the moment so it would have to be near her I guess.


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 16, 2014 10:08 pm 
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Yea, ask her what a nice spot near her area is and go there and get to know eachother, have a goodtime then get creative, if shes enjoying herself, go for the kiss and ask her if is possible to go to her house(wink wink;) or as I would do when not left with another choice - fuck in the nearest alley, park, car, dark corner, bushes. Done deal :) have fun on the date, make sur3 shes having fun and lead lead lead, and if shes loving it, close close close ;) good luck
Sidenote: And remember your only asking for suggestions, you are still the man, and therefore you are the one leading the interaction, dont expect her to make the moves, once you get the info you need, you set everything up and let the creative juices flow till you lead all the way to the close. I hope that made scence to you. Good luck !

Oh and if she asks why her area, or her house, or a bush, just tell her the truth about your situation, but in a cool way ! Say it like its normal, dont come off like you feel sorry for it, that will kill the vibe. Just keep it all fun.( we pros call that, handling logistics)

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 19, 2014 7:13 pm 
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Should I quit this one or not?

We have been texting eachother since we met on Friday, she's probably done more of the texting really and I tried to call last night and she didn't answer but texted me today saying sorry. She said she's really busy and stressed with work and explained that her phone was on silent etc and said she is not usually this "rubbish" at texting back but it's a bad time right now. I told her no worries and we will catch other at some point. Not sure what to do now.


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 19, 2014 7:53 pm 
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Have you tried asking her when she is free? Dont quit until is obvious she doesnt want anything with you. "Blow me or blow me out"

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 19, 2014 8:54 pm 
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No I would like to speak to her a bit on the phone first. I guess since she seems really busy I could just text her say friday and see how she is doing although I'm not sure what to say in the txt other than asking how she is, any ideas?


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 19, 2014 9:11 pm 
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I useually have my own schedule and have too many girls rotating to be waitin around for a specific girl to text lol. When I text a girl is useually streight to the point "wats up"
"When are you free"

If you are wondering what the "right thing" to text a girl is, you already fkin up lol. Text her whatever whenever and make it happen, if she wont follow your lead, cut her like butter and move on. Get more girls. I typically give girls 2 or 3 shots befor I cut em off, dats if I know they are not playing games. "Aint nobody got time fo dat" ;)

If your looking for the magic text pill there isnt one
She probably already knows wether she wants to fuck you or not. A simple text wont change anyhing. Move things forward and find out.

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PostPosted: Sat Aug 23, 2014 3:43 am 
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The girl is texting back but acting like she is too busy to meet up. I've not even asked her out at all(don't know if doing it by txt is a good idea) but did ask if she was going to a popular local event just for small talk and she said that she wasn't and was busy helping with her sisters wedding. Not sure what to do considering we haven't spoke on the phone yet.


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