hi guys
im new to this and i just wanted to know if someone could help me, yesterday i made plans with this girl and she messaged if we were still on and i said yeah, i was replying to her a little late like after 10 minutes or so and shes like you replying so late im going with someone else, she was going with other 2 guys and she was telling me she cant cancel on them because they canceled their plans to see her blah blah blah and i told her im not going then she kept saying please come i wanna see you and she choose them over me i dont get this girl shes really confusing me, she always talks to me about other guys and tries to make me jealous and ive met her like twice...

So did you originally set up a Day 2 with her and then she asked you if you wanted join her and those 2 other guys that night instead?

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yes we made up plans to see each other then the next day she asked if we are still on i said yes i was replying after few minutes and shes like you replying late im gonna see someone else and then she was telling me to come join her...

and also about a week ago i saw her at the library she follows me upstairs ( i didnt know she was till later) then she comes right up to my face and stares at me and smiles doesnt say a thing then turns around and walks away really quickly

It's a jealousy play - but it's a jealousy play by a super immature cunt of a woman who thinks she can get away with it...

You shouldn't let that shit fly if you've got any self-respect. The right answer here was "No problem. Maybe some other time"... And that's it...

yeah i said something like that, i just dont get why is she doing this..

She's doing it because she's a hot girl who wants to let you know she has options.

And - as I previously mentioned - she sounds like an immature dumb cunt, to me (nothing drives me nuts like a girl trying to play me... It's a pet peeve, so pardon the language).

Doesn't matter why she's doing it. Assume she is still interested in YOU (because I think - based on the details you've given here - she is)... and that all this is a jealousy play.

I'd next the bitch, myself... Pull your own jealousy play. But that's your call.

10 minutes isn't a little while.

I always look at it like the roles were reversed. If you sent her that text and she replied yes ten minutes after, you'd be an asshole to say "whoops too late I got better things to do".

This girl is incredibly immature. She is into playing games. The best thing you can do is don't chase, never apologize for taking a while to respond and call her out on her bs. If she says "well I'm going with two other guys cause you took so long" just respond "I like to take my time, but you have fun"

thank you so much for the respond and yeah that's what i thought from the first time i met her i called my my mate to drop us home and then she texts after telling me my friend is "hot as fuck"..

yeah i know it wasnt even ten minutes, she was doing it to me and i was giving it back to her sometimes she takes like hours to reply and everytime i see her she got her phone with her and shes on it the whole time..
when she told shes going with these guys i told her no worries go have fun but she didnt reply but im sure shes going to message me i just dont know what to do when she does