First of all, I wanna start by expressing my gratitude to this forum because I finally get to post in this section

Alright, let's talk about the real issue now. I met this girl two months ago (we are both in our early 20s) and I can say that we are now together. She slept at my house a couple of times in the last few weeks and it seems obvious that she is anxious about sex (not very surprising, she is virgin). However, she has something against me giving her oral sex. She lets me finger her but, so far, she has not let me go down on her. As the title says, she thinks it is disgusting but I actually like giving oral . She says the feeling is or would be good, but she says oral sex is "ewww".

Do you have any idea how to make her change her mind?

I see two reasons why she doesn't let me go down on her:
1. She actually thinks licking a vagina is gross
OR
2. The last guy who went down on her was bad and she thinks I would be bad as well

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From my experiences that tends to fade away. But one thing that will open her up to it is the thought of another girl letting you do it on her and you voicing about it. The power of jealousy is very power for females.

"Hey Sandy, I love that we have a fun time every time we hit the sacks. But....it's a shame you don't like oral like Becky." She really turns me on and our fun together is Fire!!!"

Saying small shit like that will always bring out that jealousy bug in her. And she will then start to want you to eat her out just to out due Becky. It's reverse psychology but it really works. I've been there and done that dogg.

And if you lose her, oh well. She wasn't really satisfying you anyways right. Not a big lose, now you can really go find a Becky... LMAO!!!!

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I disagree with the above poster... Though I have no real evidence what he's saying doesn't work.

If you're in an actual relationship with this girl, and you're reasonably happy, comparing her sexually to other girls you've banged is a recipe for a fight, hurt feelings and a potential breakup.

If you were just casually FWB someone or seeing multiple girls, yeah - I can see how jealousy might work in your favor.

I hope the jealousy post was a joke....if not, get ready for a fight, tears and a deserved breakup.

Hellhound and Heywood can probably give you more specific sex advce but I'd just simply finger her while kissing her and when she is turned on enough, keep fingering and move kisses slowly lower until at the v. If she is able to stop you from going, then you aren't turning her on enough.

The jealousy statement actually wasn't a joke. To get the best of the best girls you have to be willing to sometimes lose some. I actually DO have a lot of experience and have tried many methods to pickup girls or mold their mindset. Being that I'm in the adult industry, I'm constantly meeting up with very attractive girls(Strippers,Escorts,Porn actors). Either to interview them for work or to just date them. And I do this to girls rather I've been dating them for 2 years or 2 weeks. Using the power of jealousy to shape their ways works. If it comes down to me fighting with the bitch(arguing) to shape her ways to my liking so be it. YOU are the one she is supposed to be following and chasing. NOT YOU chasing her all the time and doing what SHE WANTS YOU TO DO. If you do that shit, you will aways be weak in her eyes and you will never get the top girls.

I'm not here to break anybody up or fuck up relationships, but I am here to give my expert advice since this is my full time job and lifestyle. Good luck on whatever you do, but if you ever wanna get that super hot chick, test drive some of my methods. No Theory's here, magic pickup lines, just 13 plus years of real game.

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alright alright, let's not make this post a pissing contest

I appreciate your contribution. From my understanding (and how her body moves uncontrollably), she is turned on enough for me to move downward but it seems to be a psychological block (i.e. this is gross)

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Fair enough. But you do know that the true best of the best girls have self respect where they wouldn't accept that I'm a relationship. The quality girls have standards. What someone puts up with is not a testament to you but more a sign of how insecure they are.

Y'all must think girls are fucking dumb if you trot out the stupid line that you had great oral sex with blah blah blah. She'll see right thru it you childish fuckwit. Either have a relationship where you don't do oral on her or move on. Bulling and lying to her about your piss poor past encounters won't work or will pressure her into giving in so if you want her to lie there hating every minute of it just to please good ole you, then go for it you selfish, needy cunt.

Thanks for the trust and confidence Neo.

@OP: This one works for me; it might work for you.

When your gf is in her panties, don't let her take it off. Kiss her everywhere and then rub your nose on her underwear. Try to position your nose by the crevice and hit her clitoris with your nose. Another technique is to rub your chin by her clitoris when she's still wearing her panties.

When her hips start gyrating and all that, pull her under wear down and force your face on her pussy. Start sipping on her clitoris and move your tongue on her clit. Even when she tries to pull your head away, just force it in.

When she's no longer resisting, you can sip on her labias, suck her vaginal hole and rotate your tongue inside. Sometimes, when the clit gets too sensitive it makes a lot of sense to just focus on her vaginal hole and labias. You can lick her asshole too if you're not that squeamish.

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Completely agree with this!

My current girlfriend had never given a blowjob before, when we were "seeing" each other she asked if I had ever had one, I said yes and since then she gives them all the time.

I can relate. I feel the same way about getting oral. I've received it before and it felt good but I much rather not getting it at all. Don't try to manipulate your gf into letting you do it. She may give in due to fear of upsetting you but eventually she will feel unhappy for doing something she doesn't want to do. Just let her know that you don't find vaginas to be disgusting, that you like hers very much and that whenever she feels ready you will be happy to go down on her. Maybe having sex after taking a shower will help ease the feeling of gross for her.

"But one thing that will open her up to it is the thought of another girl letting you do it on her and you voicing about it. The power of jealousy is very power for females." Do not follow this advice unless you're dating a girl with the mindset of a 12 yrs old.

I think I can help you with that. I don't like receiving oral either. I just don't get pleasure from it. Every time I had a new boyfriend when I was telling him that I don't like receiving oral I had the same talk " they didn't do it to you properly" or that the previous guy was worse than him in bed.
I think the key is to slowly experiment with her. She is still inexperienced. You are introducing her to sex, don't forget that!
Educate yourself as much as you can about the g spot and squirting ( if you are not already educated on that). Then agree with her that she is going to let you give her oral and won't stop you until you want to.
Start with a full body massage to get her relaxed. When she is relaxed start giving her oral but first get her used to the touch of your lips by kissing areas around her clit like the inside of her legs or the bikini line etc. When she looks to be relaxed and liking it then go to her clit and slowly finger her. Find her g spot and stimulate it like you are playing with a button.
The reason why she doesn't like oral is that the sensation of someone playing with your clit feels different than fingers. If you are used to masturbate yourself it is a different feeling having a tongue there. When you are masturbating you are in control and the moves are constant and not stopping.
It would help if you ask her to masturbate in front of you. Look at how she pleasures herself and copy those movements and try to do the same with your tongue. Boring and repetitive is good when it comes to giving oral to a woman. She knows what to expect and she relaxes and she can climax.
She will start wanting oral after she gets her first orgasm.
Also ask her to give you feedback of what she likes and what she doesn't.

One of the best gifts that you can give to a woman is the gift of multiple different orgasms. If you can give her a clitoral orgasm, she's more likely to have a vaginal orgasm. Once she experiences escalating, multiple orgasms she won't say no the second time you eat her pussy.

The gist of my Orgasmic Escalation Technique goes like this:

Step 1. Oral clitoral orgasm. Use your tongue on her clit until she gets involuntary spasms on her abdomen.

Step 2. Oral PC muscle orgasm. Rotate your tongue around her vaginal hole and suck her labias (when you get tired) and focus on the vaginal hole again after you've rested for awhile sucking her labias. Once you feel her vaginal hole opening and contracting involuntarily, proceed to Step 3.

Step 3. Vaginal g-spot orgasm. Insert your penis in her vagina and begin hitting her top wall. Not all women have well developed g-spots so some will not have g-spot orgasms. However, you can increase your odds of getting her towards g-spot orgasm by rhythmically and repeatedly pressing your palm down above her pussy area (and releasing) as your cock bangs her top vaginal wall which will be sandwiched between your palm and your cock. After her whole body quivers, bang her as fast as you can so you can proceed to Step 4.

Step 4. Vaginal cervical orgasm. Some women love getting pounded on their cervix while some women hate it because it hurts. You'll never know unless you try though. If your cock is just average in length, angle her legs upwards and rest them on your shoulders so you can hit her as deep as you can. Calibrate your thrusts to slow (after banging her top vaginal wall superfast) and then gradually increase your speed to fast and then superfast.

Those are the basics. If you don't pop your load within 21 minutes or so, you can combine any type of orgasm. The basic principle is that once a woman gets her first orgasm from oral clitoral orgasm, the various types of vaginal orgasms are easier to execute with your penis inside.

It also helps when she feels intensifying orgasms as you pile up her sexual bliss. Once you've given her proper Orgasmic Escalation, she won't think twice about letting you eat her pussy... or lick her asshole.

I also wouldn't advice any sort of psychological manipulation. Keep things simple. Just use your mouth, tongue and cock. Reserve those fingers for vaginal orgasms with your penis inside combined with clitoral orgasms; working your fingers on her clit as you pound her fast and hard with your cock.

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You guys don't get it. Power tactics never work long term, they only solidify insecurity in the relationship this is why the vast majority of you who subscribe to this will fail in your LTRs. PUA doesn't work for relationships, at all. It only works for getting a fast lay that's about it. Pretty useless IMHO. So attacking somebody by manipulating them through insecurity is going to have them respect you and want to be with you? There's a huge different between dogs and humans, behavioural tactics do apply to humans obviously but we're far more conscious of when we're being duped or lead into doing things we don't like (which will come out later).