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Update: She goes to uni at the same place i do, so i asked if she wanted to train with me at the uni gym. She enjoyed the training and i could see her admiring my physique. We both had class straight after so had to go pretty fast but she implied that she wanted to miss class to hang out, but i said i couldn't cause i need to keep my grade average up. i started txting her after class about our next training and asked if she wanted to borrow a dvd i talked about during the session. She said shes keen and asked if it was one of my favorites... then started talking about different movies we liked, then i brung up 22 jump street and she said she wants to see it, so i asked if shes free on monday and she said yes. Afterwards we have been building some rapport, about each others work,hobbies, shes interested in me playing guitar.
So im assuming this is a date and not just seeing a movie. She seems interested in me and plays with her hair each time we talk. Shes more attractive than woman i usually date (she wants to be a model) so i need to make sure i dont get friendzoned. Any tips on how to escalate during the movie or before and tips on if/when to go for a kiss (i know the obvious lip biting or looking at my lips).
I was thinking about playing the 20 questions game during lunch to get things abit more interesting.
any ideas?
Thanks. Im probably over analyzing this way to much.
You are DEFINITELY over analyzing and you will mess it up if you keep doing this. I don't know
how much more signs you need that this girl likes you and wants you in bed.
Playing with her hair?
Wants to borrow a dvd?
Wants to see a movie with you?
...And you're worrying about getting friend zoned?
Dude, you can't be friendzoned even if you wanted to. She has her eye on you and
as far as she is concerned, unless you open your mouth and start saying something
incredibly stupid, she is doing you already.
Most guys do this one mistake that almost always costs them succcess with women.
They TALK too much.
When a girl is in to you, SHUT up or you can mess it up.
She likes you the way you ARE right now, and if you try to change that she
might not like you anymore.
So if you are nice now...keep being nice with her.
If you are in control of the situation...keep being in control of the situation.
If you are confident...then keep being confident.
Don't do 20 questions or some other stuff if it doesn't make sense. Go to that date with her,
and do what you said you like to do in your first post - be yourself.
Forget about getting anything with her, because that will put you in a weird state of being
needy. Let go of any expectations of the outcome and focus on having a good time with her.
You will know exactly what to do when you'll be together.
Just for the love of God, don't psyche yourself up with planning and analyzing, because you're going
to screw the pooch.
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