| Hello gents here's the deal. This is going to sound crazy but, I'm 26, I got into pickup when I was 21.Now I've
gotten hundreds of girls number since then and I've come to the realization that, I have actually never gotten a day 2 or any thing else for that matter from a woman I've meet on the street whither it be day or night game.
As I think about it I also realize that every girl I've hooked up with or been in a relationship with since first learning pickup has been from meeting them at event's whither it be at a club, meetup, or bars. Now I've gotten instant dates from street pickup before but, It never went any further then that.
It seems most of the girls are more then happy to give me there number and the real one too But then, when I try to call or text them to get together I ether get no response or just one reply and then never hear from them again.
And I think I know why. My confidents betrays me. Here's what I'm saying, now I could be wrong but, when it comes to romance woman want feel like it happened naturally and yet spontaneously. You know, like it just happened that way. For instants, you got a pua a person who is able to approach another person on the street
and ask them out with (not cockiness) but confidents. Sounds great right? I think a lot of woman though, look at that as being unnatural and unspontaneous.
Here's what I mean. Have you ever been in a situation in which you approach a girl on the street and at one point in the conversation between you two she ask, have you done this before or, do you always randomly pickup girls on the street? And of course we answer with something witty like, only the on day of a the full moon or, only on every 3rd Wednesday and sunday. The thing is I think it takes a little bit of the magic away from a womans fantasy of meeting someone by fate.
Whereas at a party or something, you are both there to enjoy the event not necessarily to meet or hookup with someone ( as far as she knows). Therefore if something does happened it feels to her like it was not planned by you but instead, by chance.
I don't know, like I said earlier I could be wrong ( I hope I'm wrong). I just want to know if someone else has this problem or not.
Your thoughts and advice would be most appreciated.
Ps: This does not mean I'm giving up on street game. You can't help where you meet that beautiful girl.
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