Here are a few ideas for 2nd dates... let it be known that this may be too much for a 1ST DATE. I highly recommend during first dates you keep it simple and take her out for coffee, lunch or have her join you for happy hour. The point of the first date is to just be able to talk and test the waters... making it a low commitment so she's inclined to take your offer.


The 2nd date is where the fun begins. Think about EXPERIENCE and not about SPENDING MONEY.

You don't want to take her to a 5 star restaurant, you definitely don't want to take her to a chain restaurant, you don't want to take her to the movies....

The best way to go about the 2nd date is doing something unconventional. Something that she will remember and it'll put an anchor into her mind that you're fun to be with. These dating locations are not only interesting but they're very unexpected... I'd say 98% of guys don't think about this so it would make you stand out if you get real unconventional on the 2nd date.


I'll give you 3 examples....

1. Day Drinking - This especially works on a woman that doesn't usually drink but she's cool to hang around with. Now I'm not talking about getting her wasted.. .that's not what you want to do. But if you're out and you have maybe a shot of vodka in a bottle with coke and you're sipping it it'll seem a little daring to her (especially if she doesn't drink often). This will almost act as a placebo effect in her mind and even thought she's not DRUNK she'll be more open to doing naughty things when you bring her back to your place.

You can do this while shopping, walking around in the city... maybe even going to a nice local spot for lunch. The point is you want to make it almost like an adventure. You're out doing something fun... and it may even be really daring for her... so she feels like she's a little bit on the wild side.



2. The Power of YELP Look up interesting places on Yelp to take her. It doesn't need to be a fancy restaurant. Take a look at attractions in your city... look for interesting stuff that has great reviews. You'll be amazed at some of the ideas you can come up with. Remember think of the environment and the experience itself.

3. Mini Golf a fun activity you are able to talk and playfully compete with each other. You could probably combine this with a little moderate day drinking and you have yourself a fun date lol. Great way to have fun and have open communication at the same time.


seriously stay away from the movies at least the first 3 dates. Use some of these unconventional ideas to really communicate with her and have her experiences something outside of the "dating status-quo".

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Some great ideas here.

Another one (though this might be better for a 4th-5th date) is to look up a list of bands performing in the area, close your eyes and randomly put your finger anywhere on the page... go and see that band together. It might be amazing, it might be terrible... I'd be hoping for terrible lol - more funny memories, and a high chance of her saying "lets get out of here and go back to my place. I hate this music"

I havent tried this, as part of me is still in the "don't do loud music dates" mindset... but I think it's ok once the connection is built, once you're past the first date etc.

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This approach is very inefficient.

A better approach is to isolate the girl near your apartment, say, at a 7-11 for soda or gum, and then bounce her right away to your place. If you pull it off the first time, then well and good. You're not wasting time.

If you can't pull it off the first time, build more comfort and some emotional connection and then try to isolate her again near your place and then bounce her to your apartment.

Repeat and rinse. If you can't get pussy on the third attempt, next her and go No Contact.

Personally, one sarging routine that I do is go for a church date and then say, "Come on. Let's get something at 7-11." 7-11 is a short walk from the church. After a few minutes at 7-11, I say, "My place is just right over there. Let me show you my pet frog. He's cute. Let's go."

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Very inefficient you say? OKAYY so what if the "fun experience" is let's say, boating, sailing, aquatic sports, the beach, skating on the lake, skidooing, hunting or hiking, or fishing. Fuck even ice fishing! And what if I could do all this shit in my backyard? Well I can... And I've never utilized it but I haven't even been a man for a week yet sooooo.... That explains it. But I'm heading home today and I'll be able to do all those things, they're all a 5 minute walk from my bed.... Sooooo that's a big fuck you to all u PUA's who want a fun date right beside your fuckroom
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1 thing I forgot to mention: Coffee, for a first date? I disagree with coffee/lunch dates. Too friendly.

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What do you consider a good first date?

How does a Coffee date automatically make it too "friendy"? it really depends on the conversation you're having.

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Yeah I'd say the 4th-5th date is safe for that. At least the 1st and 2nd date should open the lines of communication

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Typically, in my experience, coffee sets the whole "brunch with my best friend" mood. I'm not saying it's ALWAYS that way, but it's typically something that friends do together.

If you want to be her friend, do something that her friend would do. If you want to be her lover, do something that her lover would do.

I just prefer dates in the evening, that you can build up into something more (I'm talking about sex). If you're meeting for lunch and coffee, you're not very likely to get back to her place, because she probably has somewhere else to be; she could be on her work break...

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Well it works wonders. It's only a "friend" mood if you make it that way. To use such a blanket statement saying that every coffee date is "friends" instead of "lovers" is truly taking a blind eye to it. I guess men shouldn't do day game either?

Bringing her home the first date and having sex with her is great... kudos to you, this can be possible even with day game.


But don't be so short-sited. Enjoying the moment... being patient and going in on the 2nd or 3rd date isn't a bad thing.

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I said that I know it's not always like that... you're just a lot less likely to get laid if you're arranging dates in the day drinking coffee... they're not going to go home and go to bed after those dates... I'm not saying it's impossible, because I've had plenty of sex in the day... it's just what I learned, and what I've found to be quite accurate. It's also possible to fuck a girl by punching her in the face as an opener... but it's not as effective as an opinion opener some things work better than others... and coffee just isn't great FOR ME. Maybe it depends on the guys personality

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