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Don't message her.
Just stop yourself from doing it. Trust me.
You'll look stronger.
Your position, and the way you need to act here is like you couldn't give a fuck what happens.
It's good that you told her you hoped it would continue, but now you have to let her decide - sending a message after an hour will only make you look weak and a bit needy.
Just sit back and wait for her to contact you.
Also, I hope your neighbor isn't a large man... If he finds out you're going to get the shit beaten out of you.
nope not trying to up myself but im the bigger guy in the situation.. thanks for the advice bro

even if it does stop, do you reckon it will start again later on?
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Next time you decide to hook up with a girl who has a boyfriend, YOU need to take the initiative.
The girl from your situation feels guilty because SHE took the initiative by sucking and licking your neck first.
She wouldn't have felt as guilty (or wouldn't have felt guilty at all) if you took complete responsibility for what happened, and you can only claim full responsibility if you were the one pushing the seduction forward the entire way.
Don't make girls feel bad.
Take the lead ALWAYS.
i know what your saying bro cheers for the advice
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then she said she will have to think about it and havent heard from her in almost an hour... basically what i want to know is if i should message her asking for what she thinks or wait for her to message me?
again any help is much appreciated

A whole hour?
Just chill, let her get hold of you, and then don't get all serious about it, keep it sexual and flirty.
yep a whole 60 minutes

haha cheers man:)