Hey! So I'm new to the game and I'm not really sure how to begin... I'd say I'm a fairly attractive guy now (I was a skinny nerd all throughout high school and the beginning of college but puberty can sometimes help a guy out physically, but not socially). After a decent amount of rejection that I've faced, which is mostly because of oneitis that I suffered early in life, my issues lie with lack of confidence and fear of rejection. Talking to women is usually a hit or miss. I've made a lot of friends that are girls but they are usually the girlfriends of friends. I'd like to go out and work on potential sarging skills, but I'm not really sure how to go about it. I've been trying to go out with friends, but the downside to being a nerd from the beginning is that all of your friends are nerds and don't really know what to do either. If anyone has any tips or knows how to begin, I'd love to know. And if anyone lives in the LA, Santa Barbara are, let me know as well. I look forward to this journey.

Hey man no worrys, I'm also pretty new but I'm at the level where I can open with a woman no problem, send me an Email or a PM and we can talk, Tristanbartja@hotmail is my email,

-Lafayette