Alright, so I met this girl last week. She approached me and she asked to exchange numbers so I did. That night, we texted for a couple hours and the next day she asked me out. So, I went on a date with her and she said she really enjoyed it so we hung out for few more days since we are both in the same college. The thing is that she doesn't really reply to my texts right away, and she makes up an excuse whenever I ask her why but I see her online on facebook almost all the time, talking to others apparently cuz she has 400+ friends. My real question is; why is she doing this? She says she likes hanging out and stuff and wants me to be her boyfriend but WHY not reply?! Do you think she's trying to play me?

What should my game be? How do I handle this stuff?

P.S I'm gonna kiss her tomorrow cuz she has never kissed anyone and me being the first might be a game changer. She's 18 and I'm 19. Thanks!

HAAALP!

You're looking too far into things. She likes you. She approached you and got your number. You need to escalate sooner than you are. Don't confront her about not responding. That's emo and will impede your progress. Just because she's logged into Facebook doesn't mean she's actively using it, and it has no correlation to her phone. Also, 400 friends is nothing. You are overanalyzing everything. Don't have any form of a relationship talk. Don't look for IOIs, she's already given you plenty. Just KISS her and escalate from there. (Note: if she's never kissed a guy, chances are she's never had sex. It means you'll have to build a lot of comfort)

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So far she's been the only one who's been doing any "gaming."

She's the one who approached you.

She's the one who number-closed.

She's the one who asked you out.

And you followed her lead every step of the way. She's got you in the palm of her hand. You weren't even a challenge in any way. Why would she be excited to respond to your messages quickly?

Your whole situation looks like a male/female role switch here. She's the man and you're the woman.

Start taking the lead more. Not just with this girl, but with everything in life.

Damn it.. I feel so bad right now. I'd breakup but I like this girl. Any ideas on how to become a challenge or any tutorials?

Lol, 19 year old girl who has never kissed anyone.

Can't
stop
laughing

Unless this girl is FAT(I mean like Honey Boo Boo fat) there is no way this is true.

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RSDTyler

No need to breakup or anything! You're still young and any experience like this will probably be good for you in the long run.

Just focus more on leadership and proactiveness in general and you'll end up alright.