Ok so I get invited over for a movie from this baaabe from a dating site. After a few days of debating( thought I might get killed) I decide too. Long story short we had a few drinks, half ass watched a movie and had some great conversation. Eventually we start making out and it's getting hot she out of no where she tells me it's time to go home? So I left and being very confused I made the mistake of texting her right after (230am) just saying I had a good time but wanted to know what the deal was wit that? Anyway al I got were a few short text and one saying " didn't feel like fucking"
So you know after that I sent a few more blah blah which eventually led to no responses and maybe even blocked lol. So my questions are:
Why would she just stop it and send me home like that? I swore we were both enjoying each other and it's not like I shit my pants or something

Did I blow myself out of the water just like that by texting her right after?? Cause it felt like in the snap of a finger al her interest was gone. When we were first messaging she did say she wasn't getting the creepy/ desperate vibe from me like she does most

I've had this neediness problem fuck me over a few times, I just couldn't help it, it was ducking with my head. She went from long messages to short two word ones after she sent me home

I'm debating on deleting the chicks number after we hang out and just hop they text me at some point lol it just sucks cause what I thought was just gonna be a fuck session with a random babe turned into me meeting someone who I actually thought was pretty fuckin awesome.

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The reason she suddenly pushed you off is because feminism fried her brains. Meaning that she sees her sexuality as a commodity to trade upwards in the world. Fearing buyers remorse of SPAM her goods, instead of giving herself to authentic enjoyment she bailed.

Chicks like this embody the demise of the inability of Western women to give sexual enjoyment - for them everything is a comeptition of status and trading upwards in the world.

If you keep texting her you will become an orbiter she leeches off to boost her ego.

She took your apprehension as aloofness and mysterious. Increasing her desire to meet up and get banged.
Her ASD/LMR kicks in as well as can be expected from a 1st night fuck fest. I'm guessing there wee other little signals to pull back some, before forging ahead to glory land.

So, what is our hero to do? Give up and run? Or just back off a little and build more comfort, then try again?

Then... Wah, I'm all butt hurt you didn't want me as much as I wanted you.
What you felt the desperate urge to prove her wrong?
The neediness set in and she could smell it like the shit-house door on a tuna boat. Yes, actually calling and texting someone every 3 minutes does make you needy.
If you would have stuck to the 1st part of the plan, you would likely have your dick wet by now.

Your hot and sexy vibe keeps getting its ass kicked by your needy and clingy actions. STOP that!

Send her a dick pic with "I honestly would be fine never seeing you again". And move on.

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Hahah fuck ya. That's exactly the shit I needed to hear I appreciate that. Now although this might be the most over asked rookie question. But say after that, how long should I have waited to text or call her? Or do I wait and see if she does? I think my problem has always been that if they aren't texting me like they were before that I did something wrong and then I'm running around my head trying to figure it out. I just wished I never sent her anything lol

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Anyone can be confident with a full head of hair. But a confident bald man - there's your diamond in the rough.
- Larry David

She was just giving you LMR. No big deal. You had to pull back and build comfort. Never text after you leave a girl to find out why things didn't work out. That's moreso reactive than needy.

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Just pause a second and puzzle it all together ...

In order for you to get her, you must pretend you are totally indifferent. No genuine emotion may shine through on your part for her to find you "interesting".

Imagine if you had said what you truly felt: "First I thought this was just gonna be a casual sex evening. But the more we interact, the more I appreciate you." That would have sent the "needy" signal. But people who would build genuine relationships would need to hear something like this. The fact you cannot say it is poisonous for any true intimacy between people nowadays.

Then, on her end, she is not allowing herself to think: "fucking feels good, I like this guy, let's go for it". No - she sees her sexual satisfaction as a product which must be bartered for imaginary status. [Or at least traded with a guy who establishes sufficient of this imaginary status by feigning indifference.]

Relationships in Western civilisation are set up to be doomed.