SO I have been lurking for a while just reading some basic's (half way through the game, still reading) and have had seen improvement in the way that I talk with women, but the process has been slow.. I have been getting into shape and am starting to look good (I catch quite a bit of women checking me out) but the catch is I'm still so bland or something with my personality.

I have like 4-5 girls that I'm talking to (haven't done much of anything with either of them), nothing too serious but I think I know what at least a few of them want, but in my lack of experiences I'm not following through. Now that I'm getting older it seems like girls just expect a certain level of idk lets say swag which i don't portray. I'm 25, I have had sex a hand full of times and it's been a while since the last time, I've never had a girl friend, and I'm not an asshole (wish I was sometimes). I just realize that I gotta communicate more what it is I want (what I'm doing here), which is to be more of a guy i guess, more dating, random hook-up, etc..

AND I like the idea of leaving girls better off than when you found them, bugs me that most guys don't even attempt to try.. sry to run long, but I also could keep going too lol!

I'm not sure I know what you're asking...

Im still some what socially awkward, and I just want help improving on my game or lack there of. I guess apart from reading some posts I don't really know where I should start.

If you're still socially awkward, you need to get out of and get shot down, honestly.

Approach random girls. Groups of girls or single girls. Flirt. Try some basic routines (routines are bad... get away from them as quick as you can...) - you're going to get shot down and rejected - and that's good. After a few you'll realize it doesn't hurt at all, and you can take what you learned from the last rejection, and not make the same mistakes.

Flirt with everyone. Cashiers, bartenders, waitresses, police officers, people on the street... You'll get more comfortable doing it.

It's easier once you're past your AA and social awkwardness.