Hey everyone,

So i'm really new to this whole pick up thing and i got refferred to reading the book by a friend after i asked him how he overcame his issues with self esteem.
I wanna start by breaking it down why i'm here in a nutshell.


I'm 20 years old and an Aussie (Western aussie to be precise).
The girl I loved and still love had a brain tumor and had forgotten about me.
Her and I went to school together and at 15 she moved back to her country, some years later we came into contact over fb and she came back to aus for holiday.
Since then we began dating.
When she returned to her country she was lethargic and had a check up.
They ended up finding out she had a brain tumor and it required immediate surgery.
She underwent surgery and had sustained memory loss, she completely forgot who I was and about my existance.
The doctors said that the only people she will remember are people who are/were significant in her life.

This is what brings me here.
I am not a party goer, I was always bullied in school and high school because of my weight.
Now I fit into the normal BMI range, but still lack confidence in myself from being bullied and teased throughout my younger years.
The thing I enjoy most in life is doing things people believe are impossible, a perfect example is studying at University and 2 institutes of higher education along with 2 part time jobs.
I pride myself in breaking that barrier, and would love to show the world I am worthy of people.

So I read "The game" by Neil strauss and that's what made me join this forum.

I would like to know where to begin, my ethnicity is yugoslavian meaning i'm loud, outspoken and obnoxious.
I can sometimes open depending on my mood, when i'm in a really "I don't give a fuck" moods I have gotten girls numbers and met with them.

I haven't had any girl since my ex girlfriend had her tumor, it's been two years and I am tired of waiting and trying to know whether she will get her memory back.
I've made a decision to move on.

I'd like to start increasing my social skills step by step, maybe by starting conversations with both men and women just for practice.

Can anyone recommend any good openers or good practice routines prior to going out sarging?

To be honest I believe i learn best by being thrown in the deep or watching and following other people do.
I would like to begin sarging with my friend who recommended the book to me ASAP.

Now what i'm here for are tips in regard to what age group to target, and who in particular.

Remember I'm 20, and have no experience in field.

I look forward to your responses guys.

Kind regards,
MrTune.

Hello and welcome!

I'm sorry to hear about the girl you loved. That really sucks.

However, you've come to the right place. I'm sure you'll find a lot of great resources here.

Here's something you might find useful if you're looking for some sort of simple step-by-step guide: http://chiefpua.com/outer-game

Hey Chief,

Thanks , I was also thinking of reading some books mentioned in "The Game" such as "my secret garden" to see how women actually are aroused by men and how they imagine the perfect "pick up" to occur in their lives.
But all this reading is meaningless unless I apply the knowledge I now possess.
Where would you recommend I start, and on whom, e.g age group.
I have been told many times that I appear older than I look and have always had a fantasy of sleeping with older women.

My friends often go on about how easy it is to land a cougar or a mistress looking for fun?

Any experiences?

Cheers,
Mr Tune

To tell you the truth, it really doesn't matter WHERE you start as long as you START. So get out there!

Ive also heard of some site called bravopua, anything that you guys have in common? Pm me if you do