Hey guys. Well here I am, need some advice once again. I try not to post unless I'm completely stumped. Which I am. Just need some outside feedback/advice.

Thanks to the game and these forums, I've been dating some really hot woman. But being the first time I get such hot woman, HB8+. I tend to act AFC sometimes. Not sure why. I guess since they are so hot I get super excited and put on pedestals, knowing that's an attraction killer. :/ I know some of it has to do with inner game, which is the area I lacked most. But I have come a long way. I have lost 20 pounds and been reading books, Way of the superior man, so I'm getting there.

So here's my situation. Met this HB9 online about a month ago. She's 24 and been in only one relationship her whole life and slept with only one guy. She's been single for a year now. I've been on 4 dates with her, k-close on second date. But F-close seems impossible for now, took her a year to sleep with her last BF.

So on the second date she initiated the K-Close. We were at a house party and both tipsy. She says that was a mistake, she never kisses guys, and never so soon. She says she doesn't remember much, but I know she's exaggerating cause she wasn't that drunk. Neither of us were.

On the third date I went for a normal kiss, thinking since we've done it before it would be cool. Nope. She says she feels bad about kissing me. Doesn't regret it. But doesn't want me to get the wrong impression. At this point I thought I was getting, friendzoned. Of course I get a bit upset, AFC I know, and ask whats going on? Is she leading me on, what does she want... blah blah blah.. all this AFC crap.

She said last night (4th date) it kinda freaked her out when I brought up the convo of what she's wants or is looking for. She says she doesn't know, she's scared because the guy who she lost her V card too and the guy she thought she was gonna marry really broke her heart. So some baggage here. She tells me she likes being single but she says she really likes me, is attracted to me and feels comfortable with me.

She says if she had it her way we could be friends first and then go from there. But that she isn't friendzoning me. I'm only the 3rd guy she's ever dated. This conversation happened last night. I looked very AFC last night asking some dumb ass questions. Now tonight we are suppose to go some concert with some of her friends, we bought the tickets last night. But I'm tempted not to go, especially after looking like a b**** last night.

Can I recover from this you think? Should I go to the concert or just flake? I don't know how to play it!

Just wondering before I do a big old massive post.

Has she brought up that she doesn't date guys easily/has only had 1 boyfriend/that kind of thing a lot?

By a lot I mean more than 3 times.

She does bring it up a decent amount of time. Says that I'm the first guy she's dated since her last serious relationship. And that she's happy about it cause she feels she finally over her ex. She's always showing me her texts, proving to me that's it not another dude. Even though I don't ask or care. I never look. lol

She just sounds a little shy, man.

Go with it. Be cool and chill, but make sure that if she's giving you the 'friends and we'll go from there' line that you're dating some other girls as well.

She can't have her cake and eat it too.

hmmm. I'm more inclined to not believe her to be honest.

A girl I used to see used to bring it up a fair amount of them. Used to show me her texts too. Same as you never asked or cared about it. Then she just started doing weird, mental things to get my attention.

I get the feeling she likes you and has been slutty in the past and is worried you'll find out about it and is thus creating a "backup" which will eventually turn into drama which all girls love.

or

You're behaving differently from the other guys who give her attention and she's trying to see if you turn all AFC by stating you're "special" to her.

Either way shes DEFINITELY gets more attention then she's letting on. She wouldn't be mentioning it so much if it was true.

Females are masters of deception, trickery, bitching and lying.