I know that trying to number close throughout the day is really only meant to be a brief 4 minute getting to know eachother conversation...but just wondering if there is anything in particular I should talk about?

I have only just got over approach anxiety and did my first direct-opener on a girl the other day. Since finally doing it, it has made me very eager to go out and talk to more girls =)

From anyone who has experience in day-game.... Is there anything in particular that works for you (i.e....questions, routines, conversation topics)

and also, to avoid any f*ck ups, is there anything in particular that I shouldn't do? (i.e. ask her if she gets approached on the steet often + say I never approach girls that often?)

Yes, don't do those things.

Also for topics, just open with whatever is in the general area. It's NEVER about what you say, rather HOW you say it. You're just a normal dude striking up a convo. You subcommunicate your intent to her. The goal is to get some energy exchange and info exchange (she tells you a little about her and you do the same) and to leave on a high note with the #.

Transition as soon as possible from the opener and build commonalities with her. Everybody loves talking about themselves, so ask her open ended questions and follow up with a relevant statement and question to keep the flow going. You can also ask deeper questions like How, Why, etc.

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Using social momentum to get into a good state, and being congruent as possible, is usually enough to really catch a girl's attention and keep a conversation flowing. But you have to let this congruence build naturally; my process is usually having no outcome initially, bantering with everyone, self-amusing (yes even in the day-time) and therefore I naturally become more unstifled when I speak to an attractive woman. I've "locked in" good parts of my personality for the session and there's less pressure.

There's been times when I've approached and been super honest, for example "I'm just seizing the moment, wanted to meet you and see what happens, I live life like a Hollywood movie", etc. But like I said, it comes down to the sub-communication, you can hook a set and get away with saying anything sometimes. I've bounced girls with instant-dating sometimes and it feels like they're in a trance. Incidental NLP? Not really, just very clear and present in what I'm doing, not trying too hard or being weird/insecure about it. What's happening "between the lines" is so powerful, you can't fool a woman's intuition sometimes.

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