i will keep it short..met HB5 online..her pics were ok but in person i did not feel that attracted and she seems to have caught feelings..i did not even proceed much further in the date..faked a few smiles and left..how do i break it off with her without sounding mean? she obviously never chose to look the way she did..i feel sorry for her because most men will not be interested in her...so what should i do??? when i looked t her pics she looked like a 7!

You're acting like she's a 3... are you sure she's a 5? Just tell her there's not much of a spark and you're in a difficult place and all that crap

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

Most chicks take 1000 selfies and of those selfies (most at the same angle) they choose 1 or 2 which generally makes them look different. This why online dating, for the most part, sucks ass as you meet them in person it's not uncommon for them to look completely different. Classic bait and switch.

I think of most the girls I met online, one stood out as being much more attractive in person.

Fade out, buddy.

Fade out.

Stop replying. Stop asking her out. Just disappear. She'll get the hint.

Exactly. If she's an ugly girl with no game she should get used to it.

the question becomes is she a nice person...

if she is then it will be sad but say 'i think your a really cool person but i dont think theres any chemistry between us, im sure youll find a cool guy, better then me for you' if she really likes you be prepared to get the weepy puppy dog eyes like a dog thats just lost its owner, but leave it there.


if she isnt a nice person then its more like 'i respect you as a person but i dont think we should see each other anymore we dont have anything in common' - the subtle hint is just because you respect someone it doesnt mean you like them

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life sucks and then you die! deal with it

by the way you make the date sound it obviously didn't go well.

Dont even fade out, just dont talk to her again.

Unless she knows where you live and shes a psycho, in which case congratulations mate, i hope the dress is fabulous.

This is correct. Telling her is better than not telling her. If you ignore her, she'll be in limbo, wondering if you like her or not. That can be very stressful for women, and since you've already made up your mind, there is nothing to lose here.

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