Logistics:
- im 20, back from college for the summer so living with parents.
- legal curfew 11pm
- girl lives with her parents cause she's 18/19 so no men allowed upstairs (only basement bedroom)

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Picking up Tinder for the first time, went out for day 1 with girl.
Hug open.
Went for some drinks (non-alc) at a local cafe, my treat. (couldnt escalate kino here she sat across from me) Was raining outside, so i couldn't change scene to the park.
Instead spent some time chatting and smoking e-cigs in her car. Typical date, nothing wrong (other than me being late 10mins which she found annoying but i fixed that in day 2), light conversation, k-close.

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Girl texts next day asking for day 2.
Offer her date #2 (happens to be 2 days after day 1) Hug open, couldn't k-open like /u/psych40 went for dinner at another local cafe, offered to treat, she treated me instead: "she said it was her turn"
change scene to mall because raining outside so no park again..
Go to mall, mall is closing, so we walk around dead mall talking again.
escalate kino, hold hands, few moments where i felt like we could have kissed but didn't she talks alot about her relationship problems, and i empathize with her and ask questions (but i feel like i might be going to deep and show her that i care alot about her previous relationships. i do care, but not that much i just want to know where the other guys fucked up but i dont want her to know i care).
go back to car, drive to her place. talk for more in my car, make out sesh there, push pull (pushing more than pulling at this point by accident). told her to climb over to my side, she refused, ok make out more eventually, after some more push pull convo/makeout,
requested for bj/hj with hand gesture, "when are you gonna.... -hand gesture-"
she offers at my place, but i said i cant rents are living there, ask her to use the car, she says she feels gross about it, ask her to use basement she doesn't say anything. after a while (it's pretty much set that it cant go anywhere it has to be another date) stupid me blurts out, "well dont make me wait too long"
she says i think im gonna go back in, realizing i just fucked up and sold my frame and hinted desperation i say sorry let me walk you back to your house, she says no it's ok it's already awkward.

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driving back home i realize i just fucked up hard and i overinjected her or overpushed, so i guess now the solution is to wait for her to just text me if she ever wants to go out again, i dont think i should call/text her anymore. because if she wants to see me and she's over my mistake, she would call/text me.
Let me know what everyone's thoughts on this are.. on:
- kino escalation when sitting across from cafe,
- how to maintain frame and not sell yourself as desparate accidently when doing push pull (or overinjecting her with your "drug"),
- how to f-close in this scenario (ie. should i have just sucked it up and took her to my place and ignored what my parents said cause ive never brought a girl to my own house where my parents live),
- how to f-close with my logistics (ie. if she ever offered or if i moved on to other women, how should i f-close with these logistics).

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Reporting after a day later:
i couldn't save this.. got ignored